Happy Birthday Bhem!
By AmberLynn
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
United States
July 8, 2020 5:59am CST
I had planned to make this discussion on this day. Of course, that was months before I learned that she passed away.
Bhem & I share a birthday, though she was a few years younger than myself. I went back and forth in my mind as to whether I would post this discussion at all, but I decided to go ahead and do so. I know a lot of us here miss her, but we are also glad that she no longer suffers.
So, Happy Birthday Bhem.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Yes, when I first heard about it a few months ago, I was shocked. I knew it would happen as she was sick, but it was still a shock.
This is a busy month for birthdays on myLot.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Yes she is.
Yes it is quite a busy month for Birthdays. You have what, ten more days?
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And Happy Birthday to you! @ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@tammys85 I've learned more about her than I actually knew or remembered just by talking to people here.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
9 Jul 20
Thank You. Yes I think we all miss her, she was such a sweet soul.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
8 Jul 20
Happy birthday to both of you! Yeah, I sure miss seeing her discussions here.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Thank You!
Yes I do too, but I am glad she is no longer suffering.
@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
9 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I agree. It'sbeen tough for her.
I hopeyou enjoyedyour special day!
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
9 Jul 20
@cherriefic I did enjoy it, thank you.
Yes, as I talk to people here, I am remembering more and more of what she went through and how strong she was despite it.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Yes, no more pain and suffering for her. I know she struggled so much emotionally as well because of all the things she suffered with.
Thank You!
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
8 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum Every time I read Bhems post, I felt pain with her. It was too sad reading her struggles and we couldn´t help her.
You are welcome. Have a nice day.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
@thelme55 I know! I felt the same way. I knew that I did not completely understand what she was going through, and I felt so bad for her. Especially as she also had stress from her family.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Thank You .I am sad that she is no longer with us, but I am glad that she no longer suffers.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
8 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I understand. 
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
8 Jul 20
It is good to celebrate birthdays when we can, and remember those who are missing when we cannot.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
True! Not a birthday goes by of a loved one that I am not thinking about them.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
@LadyDuck Yes, and her brothers were not much better. I think she had one brother that was nice to her and helped her when he could. I hope she is resting in peace as well.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
No, life isn't always nice but she is no longer suffering. I hated so much when she would talk about having to go to her treatments on the back of her boyfriend's motorbike. I always thought of how painful that had to be for her, and how she bore it so well.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
8 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum Poor girl, I also hated when she complained about her mother, she had no respect for Bhem, she stopped suffering, I hope she is resting in peace now.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48929)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Happy birthday to you both. It’s nice to remember her.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Thank You. Yes I agree. She was a sweet girl, but I know she suffered so much.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 Yes and that is what matters. Thank You for wishing me a happy birthday.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum You are so welcome, I hope you had a wonderful day
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum Aww how sad, but she is at peace now
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@Hannihar (129430)
• Israel
8 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum
Thank you for this discussion. I believe she would have loved it and yes I believe she is at peace now. She is very much missed here. I would say Happy birthday to the both of you since you shared a birthday on the same day.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Thank you, and yes she is very much missed here. She was such a sweet lady.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
@Hannihar Yes, I do not quite remember what disease she had but it had to do with her lungs.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
@Hannihar I was shock when I heard about it too. I think we all were, and we all hoped and prayed that she would have a longer life than she did.
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@LindaOHio (156056)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Happy Birthday to you and Bhem. I'm sorry I did not get to know her.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Thank You. She was such a sweet lady that had suffered a lot during her life.
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@freelancermariagrace (27219)
• Philippines
8 Jul 20
Happiest Birthday, Amber. I miss Bhem, too.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Yes. I am glad she is no longer suffering, but so sad that her life was cut so short.
Thank You.
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@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
12 Jul 20
Yes she was very active here before. We had personal messages exchanged too. l was saddened on her passing too but like you felt that the last few days she had been going through was really hard on her and l think she is in a better place now where pain and suffering no longer exist. I wish her happy birthday and to you too.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
12 Jul 20
Thank You, and yes I believe she is in a place where she feels no more pain and discomfort. I am sorry that she is gone, but I am glad she suffers no longer.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Yes, she suffered so much. Not just with her illness, but also with the emotional side of it and the trouble with her family. I hope she is at peace too.
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
8 Jul 20
I didn't know you guys shared a birthday! That's cool, though now I'm sure also sad. I do miss her too but like you said, I'm glad she's no longer suffering.
happy birthday
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
9 Jul 20
I found out that we shared a birthday last year when I made a post about my birthday. I had planned to make this post for an entire year, and I'm sad that she is gone. Thank You.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
11 Jul 20
Mylot is not the same without her.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
8 Jul 20
Omg .. happy birthday to her. It was so good of you to remember her.
Happy birthday to her as well
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
Thank You.
Yes, I am just sorry that she isn't alive to see this. I had planned it before she passed away as a means to cheer her up.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Same here. It doesn't seem as if it's been months that she's been gone.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
8 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum yes.. I can recall her face so well
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
JustBhem was her username, yes.
Yes I hope that she is.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Jul 20
@Adie04 I think it will just remain dormant. It has been dormant since she passed away in March, I believe it was.
