What goes around, comes around!

@gr8nana6 (6614)
Conyers, Georgia
July 13, 2020 8:42am CST
First of all I want to say hello and welcome to another Week, my fellow myLotters. I hope everybody had a splendid weekend. Mine was good, got to see my #3 daughter and spend some time with her, the weather was pleasant so what more can anyone ask for. My title above is about the daughter that I am staying with right now. I can't believe how inconsiderate and disrespectful she is every time my grand daughter comes over. Last night I could not get to sleep until around 2:30 am, because they were watching some crazy movie and where so loud laughing and talking. I swear a little louder and the neighbor's would have heard them, I can't believe my poor SIL didn't hear it. Well long story short, they didn't give a hoot about him or me needing to sleep, but as soon as my daughter went to bed it went quiet and I finally went to sleep. Back to the title, I never been disrespectful to my grand daughter when she stay's over and always was quiet when I got up in the mornings. Guess what this stopped today, I am going to start my day as I normally do and not worry about disturbing her sleep, she sleeps until 11 - 12 and so does my daughter.. Ok rant over, sorry this is so long. I hope y'all have a nice day, evening or night! Image from Pixabay
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
13 Jul 20
You were too kind. I would have asked them to please lower the TV. Have a great day anyway.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
If I say something, I get barked at. I just asked her if she would pick up my meds from walmart, since she is going there anyway and I got barked at her yelling well I guess. I told her to just forget it, I'll wait Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
@DianneN That's ok I should have known better then going with them in the first place, but she'll be sorry when I pull up stakes...
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
13 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 So sorry! I didn't realize you and she had that kind of a relationship.
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• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
I dislike people who don't think about others
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
I agree. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
14 Jul 20
• Agra, India
14 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 you too
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
13 Jul 20
I'm sorry they were so thoughtless. Have you had a real conversation about this already? That would irritate me, too, if I've made my discomfort known and I just get ignored. Well -- paybacks are hell, lol.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
I won't say anything, because it just gets worse. You are so right --Paybacks are hell' Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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• United States
13 Jul 20
Not being able to sleep because of a loud tv would make me very cranky. Hope your day is okay
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
Me too I am so tired and can't wait for tonight. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@JudyEv (323745)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Jul 20
I'm sorry your sleep was disturbed. That's not very considerate of them.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
I agree they only think about themselves. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@Adie04 (17364)
13 Jul 20
I agree with your title! Whoever do good, good will comes back. Do bad to others, bad karma too will come back.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
Yup and they're about to find out. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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• United States
13 Jul 20
It is so frustrating when people don't take others into consideration like that. I'm a light sleeper so any noise and I'm awake again. I sleep with a fan on year round to help combat that noise.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
It normally don't bother me so much, but last night they watched some kind of horror movie (which I don't like) and there was a lot of screaming going on. I need to stick something my ears so I can't ear anything. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@thelme55 (76376)
• Germany
13 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 You can buy earplugs so you couldn´t hear them when they are like that again.
@FourWalls (61328)
• United States
13 Jul 20
Some people just don’t think that anyone else exists in the world except them. I’m sorry you had to endure that. Maybe you could explain to your daughter that you need quiet to sleep. Some people can go to sleep with a brass band marching around them, and others can hear the dust particles hitting the ground. She may think you can sleep through anything, so tell her otherwise!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
That's ok, she knows about me needing some quiet. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@wolfgirl569 (93514)
• Marion, Ohio
13 Jul 20
When people are staying with me I always keep my usual routine. They are in my home. If I go to theirs I behave the way I would want them too at mine
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
It's the other way around, I live with them until I get out of here which I hope is soon.. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@just4him (303377)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jul 20
When my son and grandson lived with me, I told my grandson who was up later than I, to keep it quiet. You need to do the same.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
It's not my house, I live with them. Though I contribute to the household. I give them $200 towards rent and utilities, all my F.S go to the household plus I put out another $100 towards the food. Plus I alone pay the cable bill. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
@just4him I would but at my age I try to stay away from too much confrontation.
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@just4him (303377)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 I would still ask politely to keep it down.
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@thelme55 (76376)
• Germany
13 Jul 20
I am sorry about that. Can´t you tell them to be quiet when you are going to bed? They are really rude.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
It's no use talking to anybody, they don't give a damn. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@thelme55 (76376)
• Germany
14 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 I see. What are you going to do now? You are very welcome. Enjoy your day.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
14 Jul 20
@thelme55 I finally made up my mind and I am moving to Georgia with my #3 daughter in September, I have a much better relationship with her and my Son-in-law.
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@sophie09 (34278)
• Indonesia
13 Jul 20
Hello have a great week a head
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
@sophie09 Thank you
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@sophie09 (34278)
• Indonesia
13 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 not a problem. Good morning now from Indonesia
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• India
13 Jul 20
Haha yeah kids are like that these days. They stay up till late and after that sleep till late too
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
14 Jul 20
@Butterfingers Yes they are no matter how old...
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
Neither one of them are kids, daughter is 48 and grand daughter is 30 old enough to know better. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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• India
14 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 haha ok still kids for you
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@rhuenz (10650)
13 Jul 20
So bad,she should minimize the noise and think that she's not alone in the home .
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
Well one day when I said something she told me it was her house so what. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
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@rhuenz (10650)
14 Jul 20
@gr8nana she is grown already and thats the way she talk to mother,i don't like it.It's her home but atleast behave good to mother.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
14 Jul 20
@rhuenz I couldn't agree more, I would never talk to my mother that way
@simone10 (54192)
• Louisville, Kentucky
14 Jul 20
I don't blame you, I would have made a lot of noise.
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@simone10 (54192)
• Louisville, Kentucky
19 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 That's right, it will teach them. Sometimes you have to do things like that for someone to realize what they were doing is wrong.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
19 Jul 20
@simone10 I agree
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
14 Jul 20
I do now, I am not holding back. Though I do feel a little guilty because I never done that before. Oh well that'll teach them
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@GreatMartin (23678)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
13 Jul 20
Family can be a pain at times but then again you would be lost without them!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
I agree, but I can't do with the treatment I get. I would never ever treat my mom that way in a million years. Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
@RasmaSandra (72520)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Jul 20
I am glad you did get some sleep but you should express your dislike to them
@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 20
she must learn something respecting older is very important you must speak up
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
13 Jul 20
i'm sorry about that but you should've asked them to quiet it down, then you won't stay up until 2:30 and you won't have negative feelings in the morning have a nice day
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
13 Jul 20
Thank you for visiting and have a good one!
14 Jul 20
Me, living with my mom and grandparents, I've always thought about not making noise too late at night. I wouldn't say what comes around goes around. I sleep pretty late, but I dont make noise. My grandparents still make enough noise to get my sleepy butt outta bed at 9 am. I work nights too, so that doesn't stop them. Doesn't mean I would like to do the same to them when they are asleep. Maybe you could talk to them too and ask them to keep it down a bit? It's not like you want to ruin their bonding time, but they should be able to do so without making too much noise.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
14 Jul 20
I don't make noise at bedtime, they do. So I make noise in the morning when they are still sleeping. Also I don't make any noise before 8 am anyway.