Where Is Child No 12?

Twelve Children
@MALUSE (69416)
Germany
July 24, 2020 3:57pm CST
Read a dramatic lore my grandmother used to tell. We're at the end of the 19th century. My grandmother was the oldest child of twelve. Her father was a day-labourer. They had some animals but were poor as church mice as the Germans say. As there was hardly any room in the cottage for the whole family, the children were outside as often as possible. The older children had to look after the younger ones. So their mother wasn't anxious when she didn't see them all the time. One afternoon they were playing in the woods when suddenly they noticed a fire in the neighbouring village. Of course, they were excited and ran there at once. After all, there were no distractions in those days. At least none for poor children in a village. When they returned home much later, mother noticed that there was no pram. "Where's the baby?" There should have been a pram with a baby inside but there wasn't. In their excitement they had forgotten it in the woods when they had run to watch the fire. Meanwhile it was pitch dark. No street lamps in a village in those days. I don't know how the search party found the way, but they did. The pram was still where the children had left it. The baby was asleep and all was well. If the older children were spanked is also something I don't know but I think they were. I'm sure my great-grandparents were in hysterics then and understandably so. But today the event would be on a completely different scale involving police, dogs and what not. ---- Photo: PNP.de. I've found it on the net. It shows a German family. If you deduce from the photo that Germans have large families, you're very much mistaken. The average number of children in a German family is 1,57! I always wonder what the 0.57 child looks like. :-) When the story took place, hardly anyone had a camera and poor people did not go to a photographer to have their photos taken.
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@much2say (53909)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Jul 20
I have often wondered how parents with that many children kept track of everyone! It was fortunate your great grandmother's 12th was found safe and sound . . . oh yes having that happen today would most likely be a different scenario altogether !
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
24 Jul 20
I think the parents would be punished nowadays. Yet, I don't know how. Maybe by making them pay a fine. You can't put the parents of twelve children in prison! Who'd care for the children?
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@Tampa_girl7 (48890)
• United States
24 Jul 20
It wasn’t always easy taking care of just one child
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@much2say (53909)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Jul 20
@MALUSE Here, they would be charged for some kind of neglect for sure. I don't know how they'd deal with such a case, but I've heard of child services taking kids away (but that many - I don't know if they would all end up being separated - that is a lot of kids to handle!). In a sense, thank goodness #12 was ok and it happened in the era that it did!
@Tampa_girl7 (48890)
• United States
24 Jul 20
Thank goodness the baby was safely found.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48890)
• United States
25 Jul 20
@MALUSE even when I was a child I think it was so different from now.
@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
25 Jul 20
@Tampa_girl7 You're right. New things come much more quickly now than in former times.
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
24 Jul 20
Indeed! But the end of the 19th century was a more innocent time than today.
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@RasmaSandra (73196)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Jul 20
That is some story and I think the older children should have known better to hang on to that pram. I am glad it all worked out and you are right I would think it would be worse if anything like that happened in these modern times. I get scared just thinking about what or who is lurking out there.
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
25 Jul 20
The 'older' children weren't very old, at least not old enough to be able to react responsibly. One child had come after the other, as it is/was in poor families, so that the older children were still 'children'.
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@xFiacre (12611)
• Ireland
24 Jul 20
@maluse I recently buried that last existing child of a family of 11 children. He was 77 and the entire family (when they were young) along with parents lived in this now restored cottage just on the edge of Belfast.
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@xFiacre (12611)
• Ireland
24 Jul 20
@MALUSE And this family was protestant!
@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
24 Jul 20
@xFiacre Catholicism in Ireland has infused everything, hasn't it?
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
24 Jul 20
It looks like a doll's house! Ireland - Catholicism - many children - poverty - emigration to the USA!
@lovebuglena (43059)
• Staten Island, New York
26 Jul 20
Why the heck is the average number of kids in German families not a whole number?
@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
24 Jul 20
That was a good story of the good old days. I could imagine how it happened. I am glad the number 12 child was not hurt. I can imagine that the eldest children got the spanking at home. As the eldest of 6 children, I got the scolding when something happened to the younger ones. It was mostly annoying.
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
24 Jul 20
Ah, so you can feel with the eldest child which was held responsible for abandoning the baby.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
24 Jul 20
@MALUSE Yes, I can feel it. As the eldest child in the Philippines, you are almost responsible for everything.
@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
25 Jul 20
I’m pleased the baby was found safe, they must have been very worried.
@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
25 Jul 20
They were terribly worried!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Jul 20
I'm sure your great grandmother was frantic. I know I would have been. All's well that ends well.
@just4him (305507)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Jul 20
I'm glad the child was found safe and well.
@LindaOHio (155562)
• United States
25 Jul 20
I am so glad that the baby was found. You're right. Today there would have been a media frenzy with police involved as well.
@waelmanz (186)
26 Jul 20
Old times are sometimes amazing.