Frusterating

Peoria, Arizona
August 31, 2020 2:36pm CST
I am having one of those moments where I should have just kept playing the Sims yesterday and not wasted time. So I have this friend and he came to me with an idea to do something for his music. Okay, I appreciate that he has confidence in my work, but even more so, what does he want me to do? It started with visualettes which is basically just a picture with some fancy things happening when the song plays on youtube or whatever. They are neat. He came to me with NO idea what to do and had me come up with a story. And so I did, I am very good at coming up with stories out of nowhere. I just listened to the music with no lyrics and no story and I made one. So everything was going along well, I was telling him ideas and willing to change ideas. Because it is his music, it should be under what he sees. So I changed some things of the story, I'm okay with that. And then he started suggesting things to the story that just doesn't make sense. Like, it would not have fit into the story. I kept telling him, I can change the story, but tell me HOW this is going to fit? And he is a person that is very bad at explaining the How. He can say the What but not How and that is not a good thing when you are expecting a person to do your vision. And he kept telling me all these different things that just did not fit the story I created and he was not telling me how to change it. It was just so frustrating. Like, if I was getting paid for this kind of thing, then I probably would have stuck around. But he was expecting so much work from me, to create a story, to draw everything out and animate it and all this stuff for no pay, and just giving me jumbled up thoughts. I have worked with a lot of people when it comes to scriptwriting, butting heads is common, but we normally get to the same wavelength eventually. But this...It was so irritating. This is why I rather work alone. Because this was just such a waste of time. Are you good at working in groups or are you a person that would rather just do all the work yourself?
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
8 Sep 20
I can work good in a group but prefer to work alone.
@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
16 Sep 20
@DesirousDreamer Probably not
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• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
I can work okay in a group if we are all on the same page, but when we are not, ehh probably not the best situation for me to be in haha
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@DianneN (246710)
• United States
3 Sep 20
Either is fine with me depending on what it is, but I really prefer working alone.
@DianneN (246710)
• United States
14 Sep 20
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
That makes sense.
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@sabtraversa (12923)
• Italy
31 Aug 20
That's why I'm afraid of taking my "creative outlets" to the "next level", i.e. attempting my luck in finding gigs on Fiverr or other freelance platforms. I fear the clients! Instructions should be clearest even if they're paying, I don't care. I'm sorry about your experience, hopefully what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I miss working in a team but I don't even remember what it was like and I'm probably "romanticizing".
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
When I work with people I tell them to give me a bullet list of everything they need. Then I ask further questions. It makes the process go a lot easier. There will always be clients that will be so irritating, but most of the time people will cooperate.
@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Sep 20
That does sound very frustrating. I'm better working on my own.
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
It really was. I love being alone haha
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
2 Sep 20
It sounds that you are very frustrated. I can relate to that. I better work alone.
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
It is so much easier, it is harder but not having to deal with people is easier.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
31 Aug 20
I can do both but prefer being by myself.
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
Being alone is always my prefered.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 Sep 20
@Janet357 (75656)
31 Aug 20
i am not effective a worker when i work with others.
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
I feel the same way haha
@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
31 Aug 20
Oh I prefer going solo
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Sep 20
Always the best.
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