Do Not Burn Bridges...

@Raine38 (12387)
United States
October 13, 2020 7:52pm CST
Early last year, a colleague was requesting to transfer to a different state. Unfortunately, there were no openings there so her request was denied. And the few times that there was any, the hiring manager hired someone local. She was very upset and she started interviewing elsewhere. One day, she just gave us her notice and promptly used her remaining vacation days until it's go time for her. Her boss was furious with her, and he felt betrayed. For one thing, he just promoted her and gave her her bonus the day before she turned in her notice. When her boss asked her to come in so they can talk, she refused and insisted that she does not have to. Fast forward to this year, she reached out to us. Turns out she is resigning from the company that she left us for because she cannot take the toll the demands of the job is taking on her mental health. Also, the company is going through a merger and she will be out of job soon. She is moving back to our state and asked if we are hiring. We are, and a similar position that she left is actually up since the employee who had that position is being promoted. Unfortunately, the job is only open for internal applicants. She also reached out to her former boss, but apparently her former boss maintained that as she is no longer an employee, she will be unable to apply as the position is open only for internal applicants. Opening it up for her means it has to be opened for everyone else or it could be an issue. I know that her former boss was still sore from that last incident. I think if she left on a good note, they might reconsider the posting of the job so she can apply as an external applicant.
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@Adie04 (17405)
14 Oct 20
It seems like she's quite rush on resigning the job. I understand the job might take a toll on her mental health, but it's better for her to voice out her concerns and give a proper farewell. Hope she finds suitable job soon.
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
16 Oct 20
I wish her well too in her new endeavors. While I do not agree with her decisions, I do not take delight in knowing that she will be out of job soon.
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@Dena91 (17029)
• United States
14 Oct 20
People need to learn that you reap what you sow. She sowed some sour seeds when she left, refusing to talk with her boss. And now she is reaping those sour seeds. I wish her luck in finding something and perhaps as well learning from her situation.
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
14 Oct 20
I also feel bad for her, it was never a good thing to lose your job. But I agree, had she handled things professionally, it may turn out differently for her. I hope that with her soon to be former employer, she will leave on a good note in case things turn around and there is an opportunity for her to return there. At least she has her family with her to support her and be with her during this time.
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@popciclecold (40215)
• United States
14 Oct 20
Wow, that really sucks.
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
14 Oct 20
Indeed. She's been there for a little over a year only.
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• United States
14 Oct 20
@Raine38 She really made a big mistake. She also missed her blessing.