I was Duped

@DianneN (246334)
United States
October 24, 2020 7:26pm CST
Today we had plans to go for our weekend drive through the countryside, but my husband never mentioned which countryside. I knew something was fishy when he got on the highway and all he did was laugh. Real men don’t giggle. We wound up ay our older son’s new house a bit less than 2 hours away. My son was in cahoots with my husband. We all wore masks and walked around the property social distancing. It was a lovely warm day in New Jersey. It was so wonderful seeing everyone for an hour or so. I wanted to see every room, but we only used the powder room before heading home. What I did peek at was so beautiful. I had house warming gifts to bring if my husband had only told me. I’m am exhausted from this unexpected day, so will see you on my tomorrow tomorrow. ~Photo is of the front of the house and look at that driveway!~
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@NJChicaa (115920)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Huge house! Glad you had a nice surprise.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
I would love that house, myself. Stunning!
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
25 Oct 20
He and your son wanted to give you a surprise. You can take your gifts the next time. Glad you enjoyedyour day.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
It was a huge surprise! I will send a few through UPS and the rest can wait. Thank you!
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@GardenGerty (157485)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Wow, gorgeous and what a surprise.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Thanks! I'd love to live in it myself!!!
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• China
25 Oct 20
They wanted to give you a pleasant surprise ! Your presence at his new house is the best house warming gifts for him.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
25 Oct 20
I agree!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
It was a huge surprise, and I loved seeing them as much as I did seeing the house. Thank you!!!!
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@Tampa_girl7 (48890)
• United States
25 Oct 20
I know that was a nice surprise.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
It certainly was. Thanks!
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@wolfgirl569 (94778)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Oct 20
Sounds like a wonderful surprise drive.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
It was. Thanks!
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@marguicha (215177)
• Chile
25 Oct 20
I´m glad you had such a good day.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Anything involving my family makes it more than a good day. The house was just icing on the cake!. Thanks!
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@FourWalls (61951)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Sneaky hubby! Glad you had a great, unexpected day!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
He couldn't fool me. Once we hit the highway, I knew just where we were headed, even though he kept denying it.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
26 Oct 20
I was sure your husband would have drove you there Dianne. That was a nice surprise. Beautiful house.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
26 Oct 20
@DianneN It is a shame you could not visit the inside, but at least you met your family.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Oct 20
@LadyDuck Yes, seeing them was the best thing ever!!!! My DIL told me they still had lots of unpacking and organizing to do upstairs, and my son sent us photos of the downstairs. The have a front living room and a back living room and a family room. AND barely any furniture to fill it!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Oct 20
The moment he got on the highway I knew! Thank you! I loved that surprise. Just wished we could have stayed longer and gone inside.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
25 Oct 20
What an unexpected surprise!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
I knew where we were headed as soon as we got on the highway, but it was a wonderful surprise!
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
26 Oct 20
@DianneN that was great
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@moffittjc (118365)
• Gainesville, Florida
25 Oct 20
I can't believe you drove all that way to only spend an hour there! But an hour with family is better than no time at all. Maybe next time you'll get a chance to get a tour of the entire interior of the house. It looks gorgeous from the outside, so I imagine it will look great on the inside too!
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@moffittjc (118365)
• Gainesville, Florida
25 Oct 20
@DianneN I totally understand, based on the current situation with COVID. And I would feel bad too if you ended up getting the coronavirus. Definitely better to be safe than sorry. I feel like I am still having lingering effects from when I had it back in March. I still have trouble breathing, it just feels like my lungs aren't getting enough oxygen. Kind of a weird feeling, but so far hasn't stopped me from being able to live my normal life.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
@moffittjc I'm sorry you are experiencing that, Jeff. Perhaps leading your normal life and doing your regular active sports and lifestyle will help improve your breathing and lung capacity over time.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
We would have spent that amount of time driving through CT, so it wasn't too bad. We wouldn't go for a tour due to fears of getting Co-19. They are very careful, but out and about a lot with the kids' sports. I was lucky enough to get a quick peek on my way to the powder room, which I shouldn't have used, but it sure beats a public restroom. Our younger son visits us several times a week and still hasn't set foot inside our house since we've been home in May. He is out and about with his girlfriend an awful lot, and told us he would never forgive himself if anything ever happened to us because of him. Now that's love!
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@lovebuglena (43059)
• Staten Island, New York
25 Oct 20
This is a lovely house. Looks like a big chunk of land around it too.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Thanks. I don't know the acreage, but they do have enough land in the backyard for an inground pool, too. Lots of work maintaining that house and yard if you ask me.
@lovebuglena (43059)
• Staten Island, New York
26 Oct 20
@DianneN It is a lot of hard work.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Oct 20
@lovebuglena My son hired lawn people, a snow plow service, a house cleaning service, and will need to find someone to open the pool and care for it when it gets warm out. He's too busy with work and the kids sports to do it himself and my DIL is in charge of the loads of laundry and everything else.
@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
25 Oct 20
Lovely house. Real men DO giggle, trust me on that.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Thanks! He did giggle.
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
25 Oct 20
That's fantastic my dear
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Thanks!
@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
26 Oct 20
This house is big, how many people live in it ? Where else did ypu travel in New Jersey ?
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
26 Oct 20
@DianneN Would you still agree to go there in first place ? (without being duped)
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Oct 20
@stringer321 Of course. I always love seeing my family and was excited to see their new house.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Oct 20
4 people. We just visited our family there and drove home.
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@rebelann (111081)
• El Paso, Texas
25 Oct 20
That's a huge house. I don't think I'd want to clean something that big, it would take me weeks,
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@rebelann (111081)
• El Paso, Texas
25 Oct 20
That's the way to do it @DianneN Are your kids thinking of getting a butler? Wouldn't that be grand?
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
That would be a bit ridiculous @rebelann.. They hired a groundskeeper for the lawn and bush trimming and a snow plowing service. That's all they need. Wait! They may need a pool boy, too, in the summer.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
They hired a cleaning service already. Easy peasy.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
27 Oct 20
Did you husband bring any house warming gift instead?
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
28 Oct 20
Lol isn't it faster to courier it over to them via your husband
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Oct 20
No, because he never thinks of those things!. I had him mail some for me yesterday.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Oct 20
@id_peace No, only because my older son lives 2 hours away and then the 2 hour drive home plus traffic. Trust me - my son can wait for them.
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• Semarang, Indonesia
25 Oct 20
So comfortable and cozy house... as warm as the surprise . Your husband and your son is confederate
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
It was a surprise for sure. I loved seeing the family and was dying to see their new house. Now I can't wait to see the inside. I do love surprises like that!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
@HannahKusKus I hope you have a surprise like that. Unfortunately, I didn't get to see too much of the inside. My son told me they have a front living room and a back living room.
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• Semarang, Indonesia
25 Oct 20
@DianneN haha actually I also love that kind of surprise, but no one give me . Inside is more beautiful I think
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• Semarang, Indonesia
25 Oct 20
I love the green plants and yellow leaves fall surrounding the house, it makes the house cozy perfect
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
@HannahKusKus I hope so. My son doesn't have time to do it himself due to running around to ice hockey games with my grandson and all his online work.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Thank you! I have to be honest and say the landscaping there is so well done. My poor son had to hire a gardener. He's a city boy and doesn't know one bush from another.
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• Semarang, Indonesia
25 Oct 20
@DianneN oh.. but, maybe it is the best choice for hiring gardener. He help your son well, and the result is satisfying. He must be an expert gardener
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@Babale (1869)
• Semarang, Indonesia
25 Oct 20
Nice home.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
@Babale Those are vertical cedar (wood) shakes as they are called with stone work. My house originally had those, but we changed it to horizontal wood after a while. He may do that, too, if he decides to live there for many years. You are right. Many American homes now use that horizontal siding on their homes. What do they use on homes in Indonesia?
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Oct 20
Thanks!
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@Babale (1869)
• Semarang, Indonesia
25 Oct 20
@DianneN Is my observation correct if the outer wall of the house is covered with wood? I often see on TV in American homes, generally, the outer walls have horizontal stripes like white wooden boards.
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