I Got Numbed...
By Raine38
@Raine38 (12387)
United States
November 7, 2020 7:25am CST
Yesterday, I headed an administrative hearing for one of our employees who committed fraud. As the lead, I have to make sure that the investigation is conducted in a fair and impartial manner per our collective bargaining agreement as well as company policy. While I cannot disclose the full extent of the situation, the employee will no longer be employed as he committed fraud for the money. He threw away 29 years of service, he just need to work 2 more years to get full retirement benefits, over easy money.
My heart breaks for him, but what he did is unethical and immoral. It could have hurt the company, which would in turn, affect a lot of other people's jobs and families. During breaks, I find myself taking a moment to compose myself in the bathroom. What's really unfortunate is that he tried to lie his way out of it, even though there are security camera footage, transaction receipts, and other compelling evidences of his wrong-doing.
He is older than my dad, and I am thinking to myself, that he could be someone else's dad. But he is also an adult who knows what's right or wrong. There are a lot of legal options to address his financial needs, so I am not really sure what prompted him to go this route.
I never really got the answer why he did what he did, because until the end he tried to get out of it by lying. It is a sad day, but oftentimes, the right thing to do is not always the most pleasant nor the easiest. But in the long run, the right way, the honest way, still pays off.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
7 Nov 20
What a tough decision you had to make. It must have been very difficult for you.I'm so sorry to hear that, but obviously, justice was served.
My son is chief compliance officer, one of his many jobs as an attorney, and has had to travel the world to fire many people for breaking confidential laws in their firms, many nearing retirement, too. I have no idea what makes people do what they do to put themselves at risk of losing their livelihood and ruin their retirement.
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
7 Nov 20
It is tough, but you just get numb as the situation unfolds. Sometimes, I cannot help but to entertain thoughts of making exceptions, but then if exceptions are made, when will it stop? Will that make committing fraud or stealing because of hardship justifiable? At the expense of the hard work of everyone?
Anyway, I bet your son is also facing lots of stress in that position, but I am sure that he is already "used" to it that unlike me, it does not faze him anymore. I need to be like that more, in due time and with more practice.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
7 Nov 20
@Raine38 I understand. Like with most things, one gets a used to these things. Exceptions should never be made based on feeling bad for someone. It's a job I could never do. I'm too soft and a pushover.
Actually, my son finds it very difficult to have to fire people. He feels awful, but it's his job to make sure the law is followed or he would get fired! 



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@Blondie2222 (28610)
• United States
8 Nov 20
What a tough decision you have to make there. Unfortunately people do things that surprises us and ones we think would not do anything like that. There's been alot of fraud cases here too. Hope your company can build back up from here on out.
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
8 Nov 20
It is very hard, but we are all adults and we know what's right and wrong. Stealing, committing fraud, or being dishonest, even to an individual is wrong. I hope he is able to bounce back from this, and I hope he has his family to help him get through this very difficult time.
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
7 Nov 20
It is heart-breaking, I cannot imagine putting in all those work for all those years. The trust and professional relationships he had built, the integrity and name he made for himself, and because one blinded and misguided choice it's all gone.
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