Why don't you respond ?
@Merliva (3540)
San Marino
November 18, 2020 1:23pm CST
Sometimes the discussion that means the most to you never seem to get much responses and it's sad I guess but we deal with it don't we?
Ever post a discussion where you expected alot of feedback but it turned out the opposite direction?
Well I've been there and it's not a great feeling so I'm here asking if hi have experience it also.
I will admit I do love writing here on mylot because it helps me stress less since my focus is actually on something good. I have not once thought of leaving mylot but have you?
Do you love it here on mylot?
Do you enjoy writing your discussions?
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@betlynfrnds (4071)
• United States
18 Nov 20
Yes, I have dealt with it myself. I just move on to my next thought and sew what happens.
I do like myLot and the interactions. Of course I have not been here in a while - shame on me. 
Stuff has been happening; most of it is good, some, not good at all but I am here again, hopefully to stay this time. 
Stuff has been happening; most of it is good, some, not good at all but I am here again, hopefully to stay this time. 1 person likes this
@betlynfrnds (4071)
• United States
22 Nov 20
@Merliva The options to interact are endless. Then the next day it's the same thing; new discussions, new responses. There's something here for most everybody.
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@Merliva (3540)
• San Marino
25 Nov 20
@betlynfrnds i understand what you are saying
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
19 Nov 20
@Merliva I know what you mean. Sometimes it can get a little bit frustrating especially if you put a lot of effort into commenting / responding back to people and don't hear back from them.
There are many valid reasons why (people being busy or sick etc) but other times I don't understand what the reason could be.
As for myself, I always respond back to people. ALWAYS. Even if it's with a Like. Since starting my course, I am not always on like I used to be but I always make sure I never lose a notification so I get back to people always.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
22 Nov 20
@Merliva Thank you for your kind kinds. And for the video. I will look at it later if that's ok. I have bookmarked it. I woke up a little while ago but want to go back to bed after I answer a few notifications. 
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@Merliva (3540)
• San Marino
25 Nov 20
@VivaLaDani13 Oh okay dear
I understand what you are saying
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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20 Nov 20
You never know what topics will receive the most responses. I do notice if you respond to others posts they will respond to yours in kind. I just like the interaction whether I am writing or responding to posts. It can be frustrating if you only receive a few responses, but it's something you can't control so why take it personally. Maybe your next post will get a lot of feedback. As long as you enjoy the time here that's what's important. I'm not on this site to make a lot of money (which is pretty hard to do by the way) I just find it an enjoyable diversion from day to day life..
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
20 Nov 20
I mostly enjoy my time here. It has been touch and go for me recently. But overall, my posts get what responses they get. I guess, of course I want to have a nice discourse with a good many people on any topic I write about. But it just doesn't always happen, and that's for whatever reason. It is what it is. I just move on to the next thing and that's all I can do.
No sweat, in other words.
It is similar to the many posts about people becoming concerned that someone blocked them. I could care less if someone blocks me. That's their prerogative. And frankly their loss. I really don't care one way or the other.
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@cabuyogty (4487)
• Philippines
2 Dec 20
I like to write discussions here in mylot but i dont want to leave mylot right now
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