Are you a forgiving person?

We must be if we want to be happy

@JWMILLER true and that we will not have any burden in our hearts

Sometimes others exploit our kindness so we became less happy .

I think that I am similar to you at this point a little bit , in mos cases I let it go unless if the mistake was very big .

@salimo It does not have to be big to me. Recently I was dating someone and thought so much was going good for us. We had the best time when we were together. He betrayed my trust by repeating something I shared with him. He said he was sorry and I forgave him but I could not give him a second chance. If I have to tell you at 51 years old that you should not do that. Then I need to set you free. The good thing was I was able to walk away and not be hurt.

@sharon6345 I don't have many tests in my life but I think that I can overcome difficulties in my life .

Yes the punishment should suit with the crime

@salimo true!

You are ready to give them chance 20 times , that's a lot

@salimo lol yeah, I give... And they keep fooling me Lol

Some ( friends) consider our kindness as lack of intelligence

@salimo hahah the closest friends for me

Yoir point of view seems logic

Yes you are 100% right , we can forgive but we cannot forget .

Yes this is the point we cannot forget misbehaviors easily .

I respect your opinion but some people don't deserve our forgivness .

Yes we all humain beings cannot forget who mistreat us .