A Special Candle for December

@CarolDM (203396)
Nashville, Tennessee
December 9, 2020 12:36pm CST
This Christmas candle was a gift a few years ago. Since I don't decorate much any more, I got this out of the box and decided to leave it out for awhile. It is really pretty lit as it shows all the details of the candle. The little things in life can many times be the big things. They get me through this difficult month without a doubt. Remembering Dustin on this day. I lost him many years ago. Christmas gifts were under the tree. He loved Christmas. And I will alway love him dearly. Never take anyone for granted in your life.
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
9 Dec 20
No, I don“t take anyone for granted at all. That is an awesome candle Carol. I like it.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
10 Dec 20
I don't take anyone for granted either,
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you. Special candle for a difficult day.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
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@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Dec 20
Interesting that when I light my candle is when I stare into the flame and remember those I've lost. I am not afraid of tears.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
10 Dec 20
I am not afraid of tears either as my sister always tells me that "tears are a safety valve"
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
10 Dec 20
@CarolDM , Yes, this so true
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
I am not afraid either, they are very healing and necessary at times.
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@dfollin (27267)
• United States
9 Dec 20
That candle is very pretty and I am sorry for your loss. You said it was many years ago, but the memories and feelings stay with us!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you very much. It never gets easy.
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@dfollin (27267)
• United States
12 Dec 20
@CarolDM I know, I don't know how many times I wished he was here.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Dec 20
@dfollin Every day for me.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
10 Dec 20
I hope that you light the candle and remember that sweet young man of yours. RIP my darling Dustin.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
10 Dec 20
@CarolDM Good choice Carol.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
I did and am lighting it every night now. Thank you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
10 Dec 20
This candle is beautiful. I had one very similar that I bought in Orlando (FL) many years ago. It melted a particularly hot year when we still lived in Monte Carlo. We were not home, the house was so hot that it melted.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
10 Dec 20
@CarolDM All my candles melted on the shelves that year, I found a mess coming back home.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
Sorry the candle melted. I have a few others similar to this one as well.
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@LowRiderX (22901)
• Serbia
1 Jan 21
@CarolDM I looked at candle shops but I didn't buy it, it occurred to me to make it myself, more precisely to pour and insert the scent I want..not only is it more economical for me, but as you know I like creative work, I like to create. I agree, small things are sometimes so big..
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
1 Jan 21
Good for you this was a gift
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@LowRiderX (22901)
• Serbia
1 Jan 21
@CarolDM Yes, I know it's a real treasure for you..
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
9 Dec 20
I know it symbolizes great love and loss to you Carol RIP beloved Dustin
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• United States
10 Dec 20
@CarolDM Welcome
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you. Yes it does.
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• Austin, Texas
10 Dec 20
I love it!! That candle is beautiful! No. I don't take anyone for granted. Lighting a candle is a nice way to remember your loved ones. Ever since you explained your member name, every time I see it I think of both you and your son. That's also a wonderful way to remember him.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
Thank you! Yesterday was a hard day but I got through.
• United States
9 Dec 20
'tis a beautiful work 'f art. the lil thingies 're the most dear.
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• United States
10 Dec 20
@CarolDM yer welcome :)
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you!
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
13 Dec 20
Very true about the little things. Glad that candle helps you
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Dec 20
Thank you!
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10 Dec 20
Lots of hugs, lots of love, and peace to you this Merry, Happy, Blessed Christmas time. The candle still looks new and the colors have not faded.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
Thanks, it has barely been lit. But it will be this year.
@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
10 Dec 20
That's a lovely candle. I'm so sorry that this month is difficult for you. Hugs.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
Thanks, yesterday was the worst day as always. It is what it is.
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@hillhjill (23761)
• United States
9 Dec 20
That's a beautiful candle. I'm so sorry for your lost many years ago.
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@hillhjill (23761)
• United States
9 Dec 20
@CarolDM you're welcome.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you very much.
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
10 Dec 20
You're right especially your loved ones. They're so special. They're not taken for granted.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
They are all gone now.
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
11 Dec 20
@CarolDM Sorry to hear that.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Dec 20
It's a beautiful candle! I hope the light and warmth comforts you this month .
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you very much.
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@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Dec 20
Its a lovely candle
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
Thanks
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• United States
9 Dec 20
That's a beautiful candle Carol. Dustin is in many of our thoughts as you share his beautiful garden . Such a loving tribute.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you Marilyn.
@sallypup (69156)
• Centralia, Washington
9 Dec 20
That's a pretty candle. I'm deeply sorry about Dustin. This is my brother's birthday today. He left us at age 43.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 20
Thank you my sweet friend. I am so sorry about your brother. Happy Birthday to him. I know the pain.
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@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Dec 20
This will be a tough period for you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 20
December is a tough month.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
10 Dec 20
The candle looks beautiful. I always admire your strength. Have you ever found out why he made such a decision?
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