why would some woman refuse to marry?
By Lucky Roo
@youfiq (2564)
United States
December 27, 2020 6:14am CST
Honestly, this really bothers me, why is there a woman who doesn't want to marry and refuses to become a mother to her children? will she be a career woman forever? then what exactly is he looking for in this life? doesn't a woman's perfection lie in conceiving and bearing a child? isn't a woman's perfection having a child who would call her mother in her old age? What makes a career woman proud just by her money and her job? but I also don't want to judge, that woman could have had bitter experiences with men and so on
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
27 Dec 20
I don't know why it bothers you, unless you have a narrow-minded and very traditionalist view of the role of women in society. Women and men are equal in their intellectual and management abilities. There is no reason why a woman would want to marry any more than a man does. Some women do not want the pain and troubles associated with being a man's servant and bearing his children. If they find that they are good at something, why should they not pursue a career instead?
No, a "woman's perfection" does NOT lie in 'conceiving and bearing' children! Certiainly, that is right for some women but not for all. Women are as much human as men and they have as much right to find themselves and to benefit others by following careers in science, engineering, business, as doctors and whatever other profession they choose.
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
27 Dec 20
Well you need to only find the one who wants to marry.
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@rakski (156249)
• Philippines
27 Dec 20
People was given the gift of free will. Life is a series of choices. It is the person who decide what she think is right and good for her. I do not agree that conceiving and bearing a child will be a woman's perfection as some women even though married are childless and have problem conceiving.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
27 Dec 20
All this is cultural and it is neither right nor wrong.
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Dec 20
I may seem crass, but if I didn't find the right guy to marry and bear kids with or adopt kids with if there was infertility, I would rather be a Nun . I'm serious when I say that.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
27 Dec 20
We are all different and I believe we are not all born to be parents. I support more people who decide not to want children, than people who make a child and then destroy his life.























