why would some woman refuse to marry?

@youfiq (2564)
United States
December 27, 2020 6:14am CST
Honestly, this really bothers me, why is there a woman who doesn't want to marry and refuses to become a mother to her children? will she be a career woman forever? then what exactly is he looking for in this life? doesn't a woman's perfection lie in conceiving and bearing a child? isn't a woman's perfection having a child who would call her mother in her old age? What makes a career woman proud just by her money and her job? but I also don't want to judge, that woman could have had bitter experiences with men and so on
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@xFiacre (14783)
• Ireland
27 Dec 20
@youfiq Perhaps it’s as well that you are writing this at a safe distance from a lot of women I know - and men.
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@youfiq (2564)
• United States
27 Dec 20
maybe we can share many things, many things from women that I don't know
@youfiq (2564)
• United States
27 Dec 20
@myklj999 do you think he is missing the essence of a marriage? like continuing descent?
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
27 Dec 20
Women can do whatever they want, just like men. It’s their choice.
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@youfiq (2564)
• United States
27 Dec 20
yes what else
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
27 Dec 20
Women are lucky in that they now have a choice. Being a mother isn't fulfilling for every woman.
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@LadyDuck (502190)
• Italy
27 Dec 20
Why should women be different than men? Do all men want to marry??? It's the same for women, some prefer freedom and their career... you do not need to be married to enjoy life.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
27 Dec 20
People are individuals, whether they are men or women they have a right to choose a lifestyle that suits them
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Dec 20
Not all women want to marry or be mothers.
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
27 Dec 20
I don't know why it bothers you, unless you have a narrow-minded and very traditionalist view of the role of women in society. Women and men are equal in their intellectual and management abilities. There is no reason why a woman would want to marry any more than a man does. Some women do not want the pain and troubles associated with being a man's servant and bearing his children. If they find that they are good at something, why should they not pursue a career instead? No, a "woman's perfection" does NOT lie in 'conceiving and bearing' children! Certiainly, that is right for some women but not for all. Women are as much human as men and they have as much right to find themselves and to benefit others by following careers in science, engineering, business, as doctors and whatever other profession they choose.
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@namiya (1721)
• Philippines
27 Dec 20
It may have stemmed from a traumatic experience in earlier life, hence the fear to take a risk in being committed to someone for life.
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@youfiq (2564)
• United States
27 Dec 20
most likely because of this
@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
27 Dec 20
Well you need to only find the one who wants to marry.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
27 Dec 20
Silly question
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@rakski (156249)
• Philippines
27 Dec 20
People was given the gift of free will. Life is a series of choices. It is the person who decide what she think is right and good for her. I do not agree that conceiving and bearing a child will be a woman's perfection as some women even though married are childless and have problem conceiving.
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@pjmurphy (2498)
• United States
27 Dec 20
Know any men who decide not to marry? Just wondering.
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@youfiq (2564)
• United States
27 Dec 20
of course there are men who are not married, and of course I know. but since I'm a boy I prefer to dig from the female side
@mrki444 (15162)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Dec 20
Why girls even refuse have boyfriend?
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@Janet357 (75638)
27 Dec 20
marriage is a choice so is being a mom.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
27 Dec 20
All this is cultural and it is neither right nor wrong.
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Dec 20
I may seem crass, but if I didn't find the right guy to marry and bear kids with or adopt kids with if there was infertility, I would rather be a Nun . I'm serious when I say that.
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
27 Dec 20
Too many questions to answer but every woman has her own rights and can choose whatever makes her life happy. Happiness doesn´t require a woman to be married and has children.
@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
27 Dec 20
We are all different and I believe we are not all born to be parents. I support more people who decide not to want children, than people who make a child and then destroy his life.
@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 20
i think she still has some things that need to be accomplished. be patient wait for her if she is the one you love
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@KityCat (7739)
• India
27 Dec 20
Probably its just their choice. Or sometimes some woman don't many because they dint dind a nice match for me
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