I Found the Culprit: Would You Like To Know It?

@Shavkat (137214)

Philippines

January 15, 2021 4:25am CST

Two of my discussions were about an 8-year-old student who kept on failing my performance evaluation in teaching online these past few days. I squeezed all the juices of my brain to solve it. Before my class with this student, I suddenly remembered that I can contact her mom in QQ. I informed her about what's the issue. There is no need to go around the bush. Guess what? The culprit is the granny of this child. She was the one who is babysitting him these past few days and influenced him to fail me. To cut it short, I got a good evaluation tonight. Thus, it solved my dilemma. Do you take time to think about solving a problem or problems? Are you into rush decisions? Image Credit: smilesforall.com

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@DaddyEvil (137145)

• United States

16 Jan 21

Good job! I was concerned about what you could/were going to do about the student. I'm glad the solution was finally found!

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

Actually, I am planning to have an absence from his class. At the last minute, I was able to contact her mom, which is a desperate move.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

@DaddyEvil The reason is that we cannot contact our students directly. It happens that I was able to get her QQ account before. Solving this issue should be the company doing it and It shouldn't be me and the other teachers/ That's how bad this company in terms of solving such a problem with the student.

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@DaddyEvil (137145)

• United States

16 Jan 21

@Shavkat Yes, I read that. Why was it a desperation move? (I would think it would be normal for you to contact a student's parents if they were having trouble in your class.)

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@allen0187 (58444)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

Glad you got this sorted out. I'd drop the student unless I got word from the mother that the grandmother will not be meddling in how I handle classes. Just my two cents.

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@allen0187 (58444)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

@Shavkat you are caught between a rock and a hard place. Best to just keep an eye on the evaluations from that student. Also, it will be good if you can inform your manager or supervisor about it so they will take that into consideration when reviewing evaluations from that student.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

17 Jan 21

@allen0187 The company's staff are dummies. They just do not care.

Once this pandemic over, I will try to find a new company to work with.

@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

I cannot drop the student because it is not allowed. The only thing that I can do is to be absent, but it will still affect performance based on the company's standard rules, which I think is not fair.

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@LadyDuck (458006)

• Switzerland

15 Jan 21

Why did not you ask his mother immediately when you had the problem?

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

I thought that they were with the kid in the house in every class with him. I just only found out that they are working in another city.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

@LadyDuck I agree. It was my last desperate option.

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@LadyDuck (458006)

• Switzerland

15 Jan 21

@Shavkat At least now you know that it does not come from her mother.

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@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

good thing you were able to contact the mom

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

It was a good thing to have this option in mind.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

18 Jan 21

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@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

18 Jan 21

@Shavkat that is good

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@JudyEv (325693)

• Rockingham, Australia

16 Jan 21

That's good that you've discovered the truth behind the evaluations. I hope that's the end of it for you.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

I hope they will not do it again. It does affect my performance evaluations. Thus, the possible good students will not be able to see my profile.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

17 Jan 21

@JudyEv Thank you for your concern. The virtual teachers and I have been experiencing this for many years now.

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@JudyEv (325693)

• Rockingham, Australia

16 Jan 21

@Shavkat It is very wrong of them to give you a dishonest review.

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@rhuenz (10646)

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15 Jan 21

Sometimes i am into rush ..because when i cannot find the solution,it bothers me a lot. Glad you solved the problem.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

I must admit that I cannot conceal my feelings when having any dilemmas in life. I need to find possible solutions as much as possible.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

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@rhuenz (10646)

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15 Jan 21

@Shavkat i think that is good.

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@allknowing (130066)

• India

15 Jan 21

I think the company should change its policy and do away with this assessment of a teacher by their students going by it is not always students that assess.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

These are old issues and the company doesn't listen. For them, money talks. I must say that they lack social responsibility for ignoring these things.

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@crossbones27 (48417)

• Mojave, California

15 Jan 21

So the grand ma was saying that is bs or teaching how they teach people to be Trump here. It is a dilemma when people teach that way. I mean let people decide but when forced that is not teaching that is brain washing. It can become a cult and gets super dangerous.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

You can say that. Some people are tickle-minded and thirsty with special attention. In fact, they are just creating their own ghosts.

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@crossbones27 (48417)

• Mojave, California

16 Jan 21

@Shavkat You said tickle minded , well done love it.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

17 Jan 21

@crossbones27 Does it sound brutally statement?

@ARIES1973 (11426)

• Legaspi, Philippines

15 Jan 21

That's a great news! just be thankful that you already solved the issue and just pray that it won't happen again.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

I did pray and asked God for this concern. He enlightened my mind on how to deal with this problem.

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@MALUSE (69413)

• Germany

15 Jan 21

Have you got an idea why the grandmother did that? What does she gain from badmouthing you?

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

In my opinion, she is in a state of regression. Perhaps she wants to have a class with me. I really don't have any ideas about why she is doing it.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

@MALUSE Yes, I think she wants to learn some lessons with me instead of the child. I just assuming it. I cannot really understand why she is making this.

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@MALUSE (69413)

• Germany

15 Jan 21

@Shavkat "...she wants to have a class with me." --- What do you mean with this? Do you think she wants to be taught by you as well?

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@DianneN (246720)

• United States

15 Jan 21

Wow! Glad you solved the problem.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

Congratulations to me. I cannot wait for the company to do something about it. In fact, they just do not care.

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@DianneN (246720)

• United States

15 Jan 21

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@Janet357 (75656)

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15 Jan 21

You did the right thing. I always think of the consequences before i make decisions.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

15 Jan 21

I tried my best to solve it. I knew the fact that the company will just ignore this

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@Janet357 (75656)

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15 Jan 21

You did the right thing. I always think of the consequences before i make decisions.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

It is the best option that I got. I also take time to think about what will be the right decision.

@DocAndersen (54413)

• United States

15 Jan 21

we never know why people like or dislike us sometimes. hard to figure out - good job!

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

I agree. In real life, we cannot please everybody. However, they still need to play a fair game and not to pull innocent people down.

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@DocAndersen (54413)

• United States

16 Jan 21

@Shavkat fair is a funny word. It means different things to different people.

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@Raine38 (12257)

• United States

15 Jan 21

I hope they realize that doing that is not going to help the kid in the long run.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

On some occasions, if the parents are with the student, I call their attention. They should be good role models for their kids.

@Cheyee (8362)

• Pakanbaru, Indonesia

16 Jan 21

Glad you solved your problems. I always try to think before doing anything but sometimes the emotion wins and I regretted my emotion took over

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

16 Jan 21

I do think that we need to emphatic to have a final decision. I am glad that I was able to solve this problem.

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@Shavkat (137214)

• Philippines

17 Jan 21

@Cheyee I do agree with you. At some point, they are both equal.

@Cheyee (8362)

• Pakanbaru, Indonesia

16 Jan 21

@Shavkat when it comes to problem solving, men are more logic than women.

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