She is 16, He is 60, The Update

By Jim
@JimBo452020 (40467)
Montrose, Scotland
February 22, 2021 9:11pm CST
Oh yes!! Update. So exactly one hour ago at 2am, my phone beeped. It was him! My pal with the only just legal at 16 girl friend. He was in my class at school. Talked about the weekend football. Opposite ends of the spectrum are we. But I sensed there was something else( having a smoke tonight) So I asked him if he only called to talk about football ( talked about football every night since Friday) Omg what happened next was priceless. My Bluetooth speaker decided to connect just as he said " I'm getting married" I nearly spilled my coffee, and Yvone spontaneously blurted out " no "'"*""" way" He says " are you shocked?" Yvonne says " ask him who the bride is, it can't be MinorMiss" So I did And It is. And he wants me to " give the bride away" I can't, I won't be able to keep a straight face
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@much2say (46712)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Feb
Really?????? My daughter is 16 - omg - I can't even imagine that that girl's parents would approve of this . Wait, isn't her dad or someone in her family supposed to give the bride away???
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
I reckon she wouldn't know who he is.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
23 Feb
If it's the age of consent, there's nothing wrong with it legally. I know some sixteen year olds who have better heads than most 40 year olds. Not saying this particular sixteen year old does, but some do.
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@much2say (46712)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 Oh . . . I wonder what her story is .
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@sallypup (42922)
• Moses Lake, Washington
23 Feb
Years ago when I was a home health aide, I was assigned to care for a man who was dying. I think he might have been in his early 70s. I'm not sure how but he got hooked up with a college girl- young woman. He bought her a nice car and at least one of the nights I was there to ensure his safety, they had a date together- ate supper together. Gave me the total creeps.
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@sallypup (42922)
• Moses Lake, Washington
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 I have no idea. Mister did demand that I help him do his bathroom duties and I said no. My supervisor said I was modest. Sometimes I drew the line and that was one of them.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@sallypup Modest is such a great word.
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@sharon6345 (265488)
• Mt. Vernon, New York
23 Feb
If he is your friend you should be able to keep a straight face. I would be wanting to spend time with the 16-year-old to find out her side of things. some young people fall in love once and for a lifetime. I feel sad to read this. I would not be able to get married. I was pissed when I learned my boyfriend was 72 I was over it at that point.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
I have never met her. I hoped it was just a one night gig. I'm sad.
@sharon6345 (265488)
• Mt. Vernon, New York
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 I would hope that man could give that girl the security she needs because the whole situation is sad.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@sharon6345 She just wants his money Every gf he gets rips him off
@LadyDuck (325571)
• Switzerland
23 Feb
OMG, I cannot believe this, is he showing signs of senile dementia? Well, I do not know how it works in your country, but if he is wealthy, this girl is very smart.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
Oh he is wealthy Anna. He hasn't got dementia. He just meets a lot of dodgy girls.
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@LadyDuck (325571)
• Switzerland
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 This one is planning to stay with him enough to be able to file for a divorce and get a good amount of money.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@LadyDuck I think she will want a baby as well as a bit of added security.
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@marguicha (167379)
• Chile
23 Feb
Your friend is heading for trouble.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
Or some really hot nights with an at least legally old enough girl. I can see where he is coming from.
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@marguicha (167379)
• Chile
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 He´s going to need a lot of little blue pills And the girl will be quickly bored.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@marguicha Well I think he has got blue pills. He is a bit boring Set in his ways. She would have been better going for a more out there 60 year old like me. She wouldn't get bored with me lol And I don't need no blue pills
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@stephcjh (33146)
• United States
24 Feb
Oh my. That is a huge age difference but I guess love has no age number on it but wow. What else can we say lol?
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
24 Feb
Anyone who believes that this is love has a funny notion of what love really is
@stephcjh (33146)
• United States
24 Feb
@JimBo452020 All I know is that two people usually marry one another due to loving one another but I am not sure what kind of love it is and for what they are actually loving one another for. That's the thing.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
24 Feb
@stephcjh Usually, Love, I agree But sometimes people are just silly
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@lovebuglena (25787)
• Staten Island, New York
23 Feb
He must really be in love with her... Do they have a lot in common? And why ask you to give her away? If anything I'd think he'd ask you to be the best man or in the bridal party, if there is such a thing where you live.
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@lovebuglena (25787)
• Staten Island, New York
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 So they have nothing in common at all?
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@lovebuglena Well They must have some things in common Perhaps I could list what these things are It could be amusing
@lovebuglena (25787)
• Staten Island, New York
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 Now you got me curious. Do tell...
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@thelme55 (63618)
• Germany
23 Feb
OMG! Really? I am wondering who is not in the right mind. I wonder if the parents of the minor allowed their minor to get married to a senior citizen.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
Whoa hold on Thelma. To start with I am 60 and I am young lol, Senior Citizens here are like 67 plus lol Her parents are not around And she doesn't need permission at 16. She is a woman.
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@thelme55 (63618)
• Germany
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 Okay. I know. We are of the same age and we are still young. Senior citizen in the Philippines is 60. That’s what I thought when I wrote the comment. Just the same here in Germany. 60+ At 16 a young woman doesn’t need a permission from her parents to get married in Scotland?
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@thelme55 Nah, age of consent is.16. She can basically do what she wants.
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@rakski (79315)
• Philippines
23 Feb
the bride to be does not have parents that approve of the marriage?????
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
Not here She is 16, she can please herself. I hope he doesn't get her pregnant.
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@rakski (79315)
• Philippines
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 oh my. Is he really sane???
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@rakski Generally yes When it comes.to women, no
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@ShyBear88 (43380)
• United States
23 Feb
Um wow that’s a big age gap. I know people do but 16 to 60. Doesn’t 16 years olds where you live need a parent to sign off the marriage? Yeah I’d have a hard time keeping a straight face too.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
No parent sign off needed This is go ahead and Marry at 16 Scotlandia.
@ShyBear88 (43380)
• United States
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 ah yeah not an options here. Some states have it where you can at like 17 with other consent but for the most part it’s 18 or older if younger I think the young is like 15 but I could be wrong. I know to get mine and my husbands marriage license we had to have someone come and witness us picking it up of course for the actual wedding we need two people.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@ShyBear88 I posted the age of consent for all American states somewhere. Can't remember the details. But I think 15 was a figure I did see but perhaps not
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
23 Feb
OHMYGOODNESS. Now I have to go read the previous post about your old fogey friend with the jezebel bride. He has to have kids older than his new bride.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
Hang on I have grandchildren older
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 Yeah, but you're not old. Or at least we can pretend that you're not. Lol. I told my "dad" that when he turned fifty we could either stop counting or go backwards. That was nearly fifteen years ago. LOL
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@thislittlepennyearns I like playing pretending games lol
@Hannihar (110433)
• Israel
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 That is really something. I can understand totally how you cannot give her away.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
Well I haven't exactly said no yet
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@Hannihar (110433)
• Israel
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 When do you have to decide by?
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@Hannihar No idea but I will talk to him tonight again.
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@TheSojourner (30897)
• United States
23 Feb
I think I'll keep my opinion to myself
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
Oh come on I want to know what everyone really thinks.
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• United States
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 I probably do not need to be triggered.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@TheSojourner Probably not
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@snowy22315 (107862)
• United States
24 Feb
I would tell him to adopt a granddaughter..Her family must be appalled!
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
24 Feb
Her family don't know. I think they have been absent from her life for a long time.
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@snowy22315 (107862)
• United States
24 Feb
@JimBo452020 Poor kid!
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
21h
@snowy22315 Sometimes not having a family is better than having one.
@CarolDM (116433)
• Nashville, Tennessee
23 Feb
All I will say is good luck to both of them.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
You are more gracious than I.
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@CarolDM (116433)
• Nashville, Tennessee
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 Well, people make their own choices.
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
23 Feb
one question - is he rich?
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
One answer Yes he is.
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
24 Feb
@JimBo452020 that explains a lot haha but who knows, maybe she's what he needs
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
24 Feb
@aureategloom No He needs a brain transplant
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@AmbiePam (57615)
• United States
23 Feb
Good lord. She'd have to get her parent's permission here. I wonder what her parents actually think.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
She doesn't need their permission here. Her parents most likely split up before she was born. I would be surprised if her mother could actually say with any degree of certainty who her father is.
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@AmbiePam (57615)
• United States
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 Wow. I guess I can understand why she has daddy issues.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
@AmbiePam Aye. And my pal.was in the.right or wrong place at the right or wrong time
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@LeaPea2417 (30338)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Feb
I'm at a loss for words.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
So was I at first. But not any longer. If he ends up broke.and broken hearted it's his own fault. He thinks with his you know what lol And not with his brain
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@LeaPea2417 (30338)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 I agree.
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@prinzcy (17893)
• Malaysia
23 Feb
Wow. Maybe he really loves her. Maybe she really loves him. Maybe.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
And maybe Elvis Presley really does live on a Double Decker London Bus on the Moon
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@prinzcy (17893)
• Malaysia
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 maybe that too.
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@DaddyEvil (32776)
• United States
23 Feb
Oh, my! So, I guess you were held back several years then, right? And... 16 is legal there? (Was Yvonne THAT much younger than you? ) I don't think I'd be able to keep a straight face and not say anything... I'm not all that diplomatic, if you haven't noticed.
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@JimBo452020 (40467)
• Montrose, Scotland
23 Feb
16 is legal here. Yay for us.
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@DaddyEvil (32776)
• United States
23 Feb
@JimBo452020 Oh, I see... Ignore the fun parts of what I said.