Is there any specific age to settle down??
@Rashnag (30597)
Surat, India
March 1, 2021 1:43am CST
Hi guys,
Hope you all are doing good. I am doing good too. The time flies so quickly as already March month has started from today.
I was just wondering today about the said topic i.e. Do you think there is any specific age to settle down? As in getting married stuff.
I am 35years old and I sometimes feel that my marriageable age is over and shouldn't move forward to settling down. At other times when I see people getting married and settling down at later stage I am confused.
Do you think age gap matters when it comes to love and marriage?? Do let me know your thoughts about it.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
1 Mar 21
I think that 
97 is a good age to begin thinking about settling down, getting married and having a family... 
Of course, in the US a person can get married as young as 16 for women/girls (with one parent's consent) and 18 for men/boys.
But, I think people should know their own mind and give themselves plenty of time to be young and enjoy life, first, so age 97 should be about the right age/time to start thinking about it. 
Edit to add: My wife was 42 years old when she had my daughter, so you still have years yet before you need to worry about it. In my opinion.
97 is a good age to begin thinking about settling down, getting married and having a family... Of course, in the US a person can get married as young as 16 for women/girls (with one parent's consent) and 18 for men/boys.
But, I think people should know their own mind and give themselves plenty of time to be young and enjoy life, first, so age 97 should be about the right age/time to start thinking about it.
Edit to add: My wife was 42 years old when she had my daughter, so you still have years yet before you need to worry about it. In my opinion.2 people like this
@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
1 Mar 21
@Rashnag You're welcome... You, too.
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@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
1 Mar 21
In my country women need no permission to marry at age 28. Before that, parent's consent is necessary. So that is the marriageable age for women.
Psychologically, women are more mature than men by two years. So men are probably ready enough by age 30.
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@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
1 Mar 21
@Rashnag Pleasure. It was a good post.
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@Sam_graphixer (2465)
• India
2 Mar 21
No No .... no perfect age ... your life your rule i believe
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
2 Mar 21
@Sam_graphixer I am mylotting currently and at home.
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@Sam_graphixer (2465)
• India
2 Mar 21
@Rashnag 
thank you ... What do you do if i may ask ?
thank you ... What do you do if i may ask ?1 person likes this
@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
1 Mar 21
I think girls are worrying when they are already old to marry unlike men because of the possibility of not capable of giving birth or it will be hard for them but are proven not true in some cases. For some who are too young, giving birth is also a risk because of the structure of their body is not fully developed. Getting married at the right age is acceptable most especially if you have already prepared your humble abode and both with job and enough money to start your future family.
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
1 Mar 21
When I was a child I always thought about 30 yrs old for marriage
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@mnglsp (3767)
• Philippines
1 Mar 21
I know someone who got married at the age of 40, they didn't have a chance to have their own child but they adopt one and they love her just like their own daughter.
When it comes to settling down, 27 for me is the best age to settle down. 25 will do too if we already have enough money to settle.
Well... That's what I always hear from elders. As long as you earn and you can already stand-alone, you can settle down or get married.
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