omg to my bf

@carebear29 (32002)
Wausau, Wisconsin
March 3, 2021 1:07pm CST
so reason i say its crappy wednesday is because last night my ex sister in law and her husband took us to pizza ranch for dinner and we asked my man if he wanted to go and he said no he wasnt hungry and was going to nap until we got back...well, needless to say he ended up at the bar from like 7pm to 12:20am and had to be up for work at 5am which he did go still with a buzz. hes a great guy except when he drinks once in a while and gets drunk. no hes not abusive hes just loud (remember he has behavorial autism where he yells and dont remember anything.) i know how to deal with him by ignoring him and also getting him to bed when i can. anyways, i had heard a few loud thunks come from the kitchen so i didnt bother with him knowing hes a adult and can handle himself lol. finally at 1:30am i went to the kitchen and found him passed out on the kitchen floor. i got him up and into the bedroom no problem. i wasnt feeling good and woke up not feeling good yet and he knows it. helped him get ready for work while he was still buzzed but he is still at work. this man never calls in no matter what to work unless hes in the hosiptal. hes a great guy and hope i dont lose him. the way he talks, he dont remember a lot of what he says tbh. sorry this was long but that was my last night into this morning
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Mar 21
Do you think he went to the bar because you went out with your ex-SIL and husband?
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
3 Mar 21
yes he went to the bar. he goes at least once per month. we invited him for dinner with us but he didnt want pizza ranch and his mom fed him. no hes not a cheater. he knows my ex sil and her husband because his ex gf used to live with them
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Mar 21
@carebear29 That's good he knows them.
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
9 Mar 21
He might have, but I don't see that excuses him.
@Laurakemunto (13787)
• Kenya
3 Mar 21
You so sweet taking care of him that's great. Wishing you happy times together
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
3 Mar 21
thanks. he dont get drunk often like he used to when we moved in here.
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• Kenya
4 Mar 21
@carebear29 but am glad you treated him well
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
9 Mar 21
Wow you have your hands full
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
11 Mar 21
@carebear29 I hope things settle down for you soon
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
15 Mar 21
@Tina30219 they are
@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
11 Mar 21
yes i do lol
@rakski (156200)
• Philippines
3 Mar 21
Aw. As long as he goes to work after all the drinking
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Mar 21
yuppers
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@rakski (156200)
• Philippines
7 Mar 21
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
9 Mar 21
Sorry for your problems. People who do not admit problems cannot fix them.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
11 Mar 21
its ok
@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
4 Mar 21
As long as he went to work...I'm sure he wasn't feeling well! I hope you feel better.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Mar 21
yup but he made up for it
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@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Mar 21
That sounds like a busy night into the morning for you.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Mar 21
yes it was thanks
@Chellezhere (6421)
• United States
3 Mar 21
I'm glad you found someone and that you understand and accept his autism.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Mar 21
yup and hes lucky to have me also
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