Worried Mom here

@cherigucchi (14879)
Philippines
April 14, 2021 12:36am CST
My older brother called me last night and he was worried about my daughter's post in social media. He asked me if I have been monitoring them. The post was all about an antigovernmental organization. My daughter just shared the post. Even then, my brother got worried so much that he wanted me to talk to my daughter to be very careful about it. After talking to him, I talked to my daughter right away and we discussed a lot of things. She understood everything I told her regarding the consequences of being involved in things like that at a very young age. She is a freshman college in one of the top universities here in our country and we are just worried that she might get into trouble or something. She volunteered to take down the posts. (photo is mine)
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
14 Apr 21
I can understand why you were worried, it is better not to express our opinions on social media. I am sure she understands.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
She did. I knew it when she deleted all those post.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
@LadyDuck I am also glad that she did and I still need to monitor her from time to time. I don't want her to get in any trouble in the future.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
15 Apr 21
@cherigucchi I am glad she did, it is better to keep a low profile with the authorities.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
14 Apr 21
good that she listened to you. She can be persuaded by friends and maybe pressured as well into thinking that way. Good that you explained things to her
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
@rakski I told her to avoid people...sorry for that mistake.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
Im glad she did listen and I even told her to people or friends who have those kinds of association politically.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
@cherigucchi you told her what? is avoid the word?
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@allen0187 (58438)
• Philippines
14 Apr 21
What exactly did your daughter post about? If it was a legitimate criticism of the government's lack of action about the pandemic, then you shouldn't worry so much.
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@allen0187 (58438)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
@cherigucchi well, can't blame them. With how things are turning out in our country, it seems we do not have a functioning government.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
@allen0187 That is already a given fact but I don't think it is not good for her to get involved seriously on political matters.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
It is actually an organization or something, branding themselves as anti-government boldly and that they enumerated all the things they hate about the government.
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@Shavkat (137202)
• Philippines
14 Apr 21
I think your brother is right to call her attention to it. We can never tell the people in the government. A friend was being blocked for saying things against them.
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@Shavkat (137202)
• Philippines
16 Apr 21
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I am pretty much aware of that.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
14 Apr 21
That was wise of her to do. You would not want her to get into trouble in college or when looking for a job. These things can come back to bite her.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
That is true considering that she's not using a fake account.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
15 Apr 21
@cherigucchi That’s right!
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• Philippines
14 Apr 21
Is your brother referring to red-tagging? Is she studying in UP?
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I guess so. She is studying in La Salle.
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• Philippines
16 Apr 21
@cherigucchi It's good that your brother noticed
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
17 Apr 21
@merrybelle2021 Yeah. And I thanked him for that
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@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
15 Apr 21
She need to be careful on whatever platform she shares. Internet can haunt you forever. Things that we think already disappear can resurface even twenty years later.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
16 Apr 21
That was what I told her exactly. I knew that she understood everything I said.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
15 Apr 21
At this age she should avoid being involved in such things and should not post any such thing on the social media.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I talked to her already and she understood. I guess because she is young and quite impulsive.
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• Austin, Texas
14 Apr 21
It was wise for her to delete the posts. It is unfair and it should not be done, however, prospective employers now check social media posts and "certain posts" could stop them from hiring a person. STUPID! I mean ... unless the person is raging on about destroying the world and is clearly unhinged. I say whatever on social media. But I'm on old lady. I'm not a young girl who is a freshman in college. Besides the fact that a future employer might hold it against her, there might be a psycho out there right now who could hunt her down because she said something "political" or "religious" that they did not agree with.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I get your point and I do have the same worries. I was able to tell her all about the possible consequences and she understood it so far that was why she already deleted the posts.
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@LeaPea2417 (36428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Apr 21
It really is best not to put political things on social media.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
19 Apr 21
I agree.
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@wolfgirl569 (95015)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Apr 21
Glad you talked to her.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
19 Apr 21
I think I should
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
14 Apr 21
glad that she listened to you : the puto is
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I am glad too. Like the puto?
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
16 Apr 21
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
14 Apr 21
Good to know that you communicated with her and she agreed. You can supervise her for some time as kids at young age are impressionable. Have a good day. Take care
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
Thanks. That was what my brother said that even she took down those post, I should monitor her activity still.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
15 Apr 21
@cherigucchi your welcome dear
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 Apr 21
All parents should monitor their children's online activity.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
That is true.
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@GardenGerty (157546)
• United States
14 Apr 21
Unfortunately, even when posts are taken down, if people have seen them or made screen shots they can come back to haunt you. I hope she does not have any consequences from this.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I am very positive that it won't harm her anymore. I told her to stay away from this kind of activities and even people who tries to persuade her.
@snowy22315 (169834)
• United States
14 Apr 21
That is probably for the best.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I believe so.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
14 Apr 21
yes, we should always be careful online.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
That is what I told her
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
14 Apr 21
It's better to be careful these days.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I agree
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
14 Apr 21
Whatever that is which against the government, I hope that your daughter was able appreciate you explaining it to her.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I am very positive about it
@Juliaacv (48369)
• Canada
14 Apr 21
I am sure that your words had a good effect on her if you had a discussion and she understood to take the post down.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
I am glad that she listened.
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