You can take the girl outta the country....BUT...

United States
May 20, 2021 12:24pm CST
As a lot of you know I lived for 40 years beside a beautiful lake in the woods of central California. I could see the water from my front porch and deer would come into my yard and eat from my hand and give me kisses to thank me for the food. At night raccoons would come by for their hand outs and sit and "chat" with me in raccoon language and when they finished they would thrill their thanks and scurry on. I would take walks in the woods and when I needed to use the bathroom I would stop and do my business. I always had napkins along "Just in Case". Around the lot and at home I was constantly bare footed. It was relaxed and casual. Often my dinner would be lake caught bass or cat fish. Then in 2017 my house was set fire by PG&E. It burned down to the ground in less than 8 hours. I lived with a neighbor for 3 years and had to leave after he passed away (we were married during the 9 years we dated. His daughter threw me out of the house). I ended up in town. It's quite a difference than the country! First and foremost you always wear shoes!!! My neighbor keeps reminding me to wear shoes! I realized I would never make it to nobility the way I dress and act, unless the nobility are total pagans. The first thing that comes off is my shoes and they stay off unless I am going to the store or the doctor's office. A siren is fair game. We didn't hear many out in the country. We would race to see what was going on. After all we don't have built in entertainment way out in the boonies. Sirens were a signal that something was happening, it was a heads up, maybe they needed help. A leaf blower during the week is another signal that someone is around. I just realized how countryfied I had become when I was trying to figure out where the leaf blower was. Most of the apartment dwellers were in their places with the doors closed, but I was looking for the blower. I also keep looking for my tree squirrel that would come and beg nuts from me. He would come to my window when I first moved in the apartment and beg nuts. I think the previous occupant must have been a country person and fed the squirrels...I'll give it another try. Be fair warned, You can take the girl outta the country....BUT the girl will always be full of the country. City life is okay but I miss my country.
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@wolfgirl569 (95134)
• Marion, Ohio
21 May 21
City life drives me nuts. I did it for about a year long long ago.
• United States
21 May 21
I went to the edge of nuts...truly. I was exhausted from my trip to the non doctor and had crawled in bed. I did my usual thing of turning on my little bedroom TV and setting it on the timer for white noise to go to sleep on when this awful noise started coming through. I turned the TV way down and it wasn't it, so I checked all the electrical and phones and electronic gadgets and they were okay. I soon tracked it outside. None of the other neighbors were reacting so I decided it was me. I about went nuts with the noise until around midnight when I decided I was going crazy and suddenly the noise quit. It was like out of a horror movie. I think it was from the apartments behind me...anyhow it's Friday and I'm not too anxious for the Friday night repeat. I'm used to the quiet outside of the country lulling me to sleep.
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@wolfgirl569 (95134)
• Marion, Ohio
22 May 21
@BearArtistLady It took me some time just to get used to the sounds of the extra traffic at night. Never did get used to the exhaust smell that is always in the air. Hope the sound dont return tonight.
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• United States
22 May 21
@wolfgirl569 I think you just explained my congestion. I suffer from asthma and I couldn't figure out why I was so stuffed up...DUH!!! The country doesn't have all the extra traffic!!! I live on the old highway through town so there is a ton more traffic on my "street" than there is elsewhere. I feel like the village idiot! I have to be more diligent about using my asthma meds now that you reminded me "WHY" . Many thanks from the "Village Idiot".
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
21 May 21
I married a young country girl and I had never been so happy in my whole life.
• United States
21 May 21
It looks like you have two beautiful children along with a great country gal. She's pretty too! We also can cook, sew, feed livestock (in my case deer and raccoons and the occasional chicken) and keep a tidy house too. We just aren't cut out for city life.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
21 May 21
@BearArtistLady that's an old pic when I first joined mylot we have 3 children, the boy there is now 25, the girl is 18 and we have another son who is 16.. Yeah right country gals are Super Women she knows how to slaughter, clean gut, scale, preserve, pickle etc... some may sound gross for us city rats but it's very natural for country gals. My wife has adapted but that big part is still there that I really love and admire.
@kaylachan (57635)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 May 21
That's true. I've always grown up and known more of a city life with a bit of suberbia. Not quite as fast-pased as the city, but not as quiet as the country. I don't like to wear shoes when I don't have to, and only wear them when I go out (for my husband's peace of mind) then anything. And of course when I go shopping because even though I'm in a wheelchair, you know there's going to be that one person who's like.... 'you need shoes to be in here'
• United States
20 May 21
Bill, my husband, was that way about my wearing shoes. He didn't even like my going bare foot outside our own home because of all the critters going through the yard, we even had a half wild chicken that lived in our yard and would knock at our door for his meals. (that's Charlie the Chicken) He wasn't even happy with my kicking my shoes off in the car but he gritted his teeth and let me do it. He kept saying it was because he loved me and didn't want me to pick up any strange germs....which I knew,,,but he picked up coins off the street.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
21 May 21
Yes there is a difference. City Life is too fast and people over there has nothing to do with the neighbor where as people in villages are concerned with the neighbour and they treat them like their family. In cities people are selfish and corrupt we cannot trust on anyone there.
• United States
21 May 21
My country shouted out loud and clear this evening. I bought some cherries and bought enough for the neighbor. He was thoroughly surprised that I would think of him with the cherries (even though they are bloody awful) . This would be considered more of a village than a city. I wouldn't survive in the city....I'd get hit by a bus for sure I'm too slow and don't watch all the time!)