We shouldn't underestimate our abilities, it's someone else's job!!!

@Rashnag (30597)
Surat, India
June 25, 2021 12:07am CST
Hi guys, Hope you all are doing good. I am doing good too. I feel we shouldn't underestimate our abilities to do anything. That's done by other people, especially your boss. I hope some can relate to it. Luckily I didn't had such bosses when was working. They were very supportive towards me. Share your thoughts about it. Have a good day. Take care!!
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
25 Jun 21
Actually, no one can underestimate us unless we allow them to. I always take feedback to improve myself but never let the idea creep into my mind that I am useless. I know I am capable of doing great things and work
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
25 Jun 21
That's good. I also do the same and always take criticism or mistakes as an opportunity to improve myself but when the things get over and out of control we get depressed and presently I am in a situation like this
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
25 Jun 21
@sjvg1976 Oh! I am sorry about that. But good that you are acknowledging and accepting it. That is the first step towards improving your situation. We all are human and vulnerable to criticism around us and an overdose of it can really make us feel bad. I am not sure but you have to find ways to come out of it soon else the grip will get stronger. There must be things that make you feel good and distracted. You need to pamper yourself for a while and keep away from negativity as much as possible.
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
25 Jun 21
@arunima25 that's what I am doing and try to cope up with the things. I always try to distract my mind when I am at home but when I enter office my head starts paining.
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
25 Jun 21
I found the post related to me. Presently I have been feeling low because of my boss. He has been always after me and tries to find out the fault and flaws in me and never appreciate good things done by me. It doesn't happen when you are at work you don't do anything good . Why he is always keen on finding the mistakes only. I think I need to do something for it. I cannot go against him as you know what happens when an employee goes against a boss. I will have to tolerate him and need to increase my tolerance till I don't have anything else to do.
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
25 Jun 21
@Rashnag it's useless to talk to him in open.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
25 Jun 21
Ok dear. Have an open conversation with him about it, that way you can know his thoughts about you clearly. Have a good day. Take care
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• India
25 Jun 21
@sjvg1976 Maybe you are favorite timepass of your boss.When he gets angry he finds you. As he can't vent it at his home or else he won't get food Ignore him and keep working
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
25 Jun 21
We should not allow others to underestimate us.. that's what I feel, boss hmm they always look for chances to show our faults ..so don't give them any chance..
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
25 Jun 21
True indeed
@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
26 Jun 21
Yes that is always the way
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
26 Jun 21
True indeed
• India
25 Jun 21
Haha how true you are
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
25 Jun 21
@Butterfingers your welcome
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
25 Jun 21
Thanks dear. Have a good day
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• India
25 Jun 21
@Rashnag thanks you too
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@RAOCV20 (270)
• Visakhapatnam, India
25 Jun 21
One can work to the best of one's ability only. So unnecessary thinking about one's ability does no good. It is better to concentrate on work .
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
25 Jun 21
True indeed