Yet again...

By Faye
@FayeHazel (40230)
United States
September 2, 2021 10:21am CST
A person has gone out of their way to royally disappoint me. I suppose the details aren't needed. It's yet another case of "I'm too nice-itis", mixed with I attract narcissists to myself. I suppose I should be happy , you know, true colors revealed , didn't waste any more time and energy than I already did, didn't give him anything else... Why can't people say what they mean and mean what they say? Why does it have to be all these lead ons - and then "no, I didn't say that exactly...." My dad was incredible at that, too - and he also had traits of a narcissist. Anyway. Long rant. I have many people in my life I'm grateful for and am meeting new people along the way too... but.... still... *sigh* Photo: Pixabay
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
4 Sep 21
I liked what you said in your last sentence . Have a nice day
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
5 Sep 21
@FayeHazel Finally it is your attitude that counts
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
6 Sep 21
@allknowing Hm. I'm trying. Though hard to be cheerful sometimes
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
5 Sep 21
Thanks! I do try to keep positive, even though some days that is usually hard
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Sep 21
Ugh - sorry you had to go through that with that person. Better to find out now than down the road. Right - focus on the folks who have a more positive impact on your life . . . these narcissists can go away, far far away.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Sep 21
@FayeHazel I was thinking let them be deserted somewhere with a bunch of mirrors . Planet Narcissist sounds good too .
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
3 Sep 21
@much2say Oh yes! That's excellent, they could stare at themselves all day
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
2 Sep 21
Thanks. So right, at least I found out now.... not later. I wish we could round up all the narcissists and ship em off to island where they could fend for themselves surrounded by people like themselves.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
2 Sep 21
I hav had luck with the people of my life but my daughters have not been as lucky. It seems that there are a lot of narcissists around
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
2 Sep 21
I'm happy you've been lucky, and I hope that your daughters have better luck in near future. Yes, there sure do seem to be a lot of narcissists, I don't know why people get that way
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
2 Sep 21
@FayeHazel There“s a lot of them around
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
3 Sep 21
@marguicha Yes! A pity there is no cure
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
3 Sep 21
I have been lucky in my life that I got few people but they all are good. Sorry to know that you had a tough time with this person.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
3 Sep 21
I'm happy you have some nice people in your life
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@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Sep 21
I'm sorry you have such bad luck in your relationships.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
3 Sep 21
THanks Judy :/
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