Job Update - Being Ghosted
By allen0187
@allen0187 (59648)
Philippines
September 6, 2021 9:16am CST
Well, sort of.
So ghosting is a term usually used in dating circles or relationships. You're with someone, you are really hitting off real well and then all of a sdden, you are dropped like a hot potato and what's worst is you don't hear from the person as if you didn't exist or he/she didn't exist. So the personal relationship with that person is suddenly gone without explanation and that person withdraws from all communication
There is something similar when applying for work. You passed all the interviews and ready to work just waiting for your contract and you don't hear anything frm the company. You reach out but dont get any confirmation from the recruitr or HR personnel about your application.
Ok, so I wasn't that far into my applications but it sure feels like I got ghosted. So over the weekend, I had three interviews and two exams that I did for three companies. I passed all the exams and interviews and I'm just waiting for their calls for the final interview. I was suppose to hear from them today.
Two of the three did not call. Although, I'm giving myself until the end of the week to wait for these two. Too bad because those two were good fits in terms of salary and comms. The third one, called me earlier this evening and said that the account they profiled me for isn't having a new class as they expected. The new class might happen in October but there is no guarantee about it. They called and asked if I'm good to be reprofiled. Of course, I'm good, as if I have a choice.
Anyway, I sincerely hope these three aren't a case of ghosting.
Have you been ghosted before? In a personal relationship or otherwise?
Feel free to chime in.
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9 responses
@Blondie2222 (28610)
• United States
6 Sep 21
That is the wrost waiting to hear back from the companies you applied for. I wish you good luck and I hope you hear from someone soon. With so many companies hiring you would think you would hear something..
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
8 Sep 21
@Blondie2222 thanks.
I need a lot of it now and moving forward.
@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
6 Sep 21
True.
Anyway, they said they will update me today, Monday. Monday is coming to an end in a little less than an hour in my side of the world. I guess, I'll keep on sending resumes and I won't stop until I'm actually working already for a new company.
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
6 Sep 21
Yes, and I really hated it. I thought it was terribly cruel. That happens fairly often in a job situation though it seems, sadly.
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
6 Sep 21
It really shoudn't be the case. What is so hard telling the applicant via email, call, or even text that he/she didn't make it?
I think it is unprofessional. That's just me though.
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
6 Sep 21
@allen0187 I would agree with you. Not cool to keep people hanging.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
7 Sep 21
Yes a long time ago and it was really hard and painful 

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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
7 Sep 21
@allen0187 I`m ok now. Those were the days when I am still searching for a job and relationship 

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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
12 Sep 21
Thanks.
I hate waiting in vain as well.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
7 Sep 21
I haven’t been but ghosted but i have ghosted someone before.
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
7 Sep 21
What made you do that dear sister?
Feel free to share but if you are not comfortable, that is fine as well.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
7 Sep 21
@allen0187 long story which I Dion't want to recall anymore.
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@florelway (23339)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Sep 21
Just been ghosted lol. This is my third reply to you after the previous two were lost. Can't figure how it happened or might have touched a button. Yes I've experienced those. I hope you can find your place and be settled in the job you like. Maybe those companies who ghosted you had freezed hiring.
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
6 Sep 21
I wish you could have some results.
I do hate that these places just ghost people.
I really wish they would let you know one way or the other, but this is common, yes it is the way over here as well.
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
6 Sep 21
All that trouble so they can ghost you? wow thats a whole new level of deception.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
6 Sep 21
Uh oh! They found out too much about you... maybe I shouldn't have sent them your myLot account link... 
I've never been ghosted but I have ghosted a person or two... for good reasons, of course. It's not nice but... *shrug* better than confrontation, in my opinion...

I've never been ghosted but I have ghosted a person or two... for good reasons, of course. It's not nice but... *shrug* better than confrontation, in my opinion...1 person likes this











