Frustrating

Kenya
September 21, 2021 6:02am CST
I have this relative who lives abroad we were in constant communication till she landed in my country. She had promised to come visit us the moment she came . But she has never done that each and every time she has an excuse . Is she really telling the truth or just making us wait in vain . Am so bored .
12 people like this
12 responses
@LadyDuck (502153)
• Italy
21 Sep 21
I do not know this person, hard to tell if she is inventing excuses, even if I cannot see the reason.
2 people like this
• Kenya
21 Sep 21
I am in dilemma sometimes I feel like not talking to her, reply her text messages but am just tempted to read, reply and even pick her call!
1 person likes this
@LadyDuck (502153)
• Italy
21 Sep 21
@Laurakemunto You surely know her better than we do. Why do you think she invests excuses not to come to visit you?
@LadyDuck (502153)
• Italy
22 Sep 21
@cacay1 It is possible, if she is not interested better to cut short.
@jobelbojel (36791)
• Philippines
21 Sep 21
I hope that she shows up soon. Do you think her reasons are valid?
2 people like this
• Kenya
21 Sep 21
I think they are not . But other times whatever she says she does I don't quite understand her well
@Nawsheen (28761)
• Mauritius
21 Sep 21
Maybe she came back to your country for a specific purpose and got busy. Maybe you could ask them when they will be visiting you. Have you tried talking to them
1 person likes this
@Nawsheen (28761)
• Mauritius
22 Sep 21
@Laurakemunto they are just making excuses them. Just ignore them
1 person likes this
• Kenya
22 Sep 21
@Nawsheen yes I guess so and that's what am gonna do
1 person likes this
• Kenya
21 Sep 21
I have but same story coming tomorrow,next week ,this date am now tired
1 person likes this
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
21 Sep 21
Cannot say.. what's in her mind...
1 person likes this
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
22 Sep 21
1 person likes this
• Kenya
22 Sep 21
Am trying to decipher with no clue
• Kenya
22 Sep 21
@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
21 Sep 21
I think she is a liar, sorry to say.
1 person likes this
• United States
22 Sep 21
@Laurakemunto Did they ever show up to you?
• United States
23 Sep 21
@cacay1 Yes she did
1 person likes this
• Kenya
22 Sep 21
I think so too
1 person likes this
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Oct 21
She probably has a lot to do. Be patient.
1 person likes this
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Oct 21
@Laurakemunto I understand.
1 person likes this
• Kenya
9 Oct 21
1 person likes this
• Kenya
9 Oct 21
I guess so but my patience is wearing out
1 person likes this
@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
21 Sep 21
It is not easy traveling and visiting too much people when you want a vacation. I think, she needed a vacation without visiting too much people
1 person likes this
• Germany
21 Sep 21
@Laurakemunto Oh ok. I understand. She must not make any promises to you if she will not do it.
• Kenya
21 Sep 21
I try to understand her but she's always giving broken promises and that hurts so much
1 person likes this
• Germany
23 Sep 21
@cacay1 Yes. You`re right
@marlina (154103)
• Canada
29 Sep 21
Maybe you should keep your distances for a while
• Midland, Michigan
29 Sep 21
Weird that she communicates from afar easier than from nearby. I would quit waiting on her. She doesn't keep her word.
1 person likes this
• Midland, Michigan
30 Sep 21
@Laurakemunto you've done your best. You might feel bad but the ball is in her court. I wouldn't even waste time communicating with her once she's back home again unless she begins it. But that's up to you.
• Kenya
30 Sep 21
Yea I finally gave up
1 person likes this
@franxav (14588)
• India
21 Sep 21
Don't get frustrated. Just keep in touch with your relative
1 person likes this
• Kenya
22 Sep 21
I am doing so but sometimes I give up
@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
21 Sep 21
Perhaps she has gotten busy! You might have to giver a surprise visit
1 person likes this
• Kenya
22 Sep 21
I will communicate with her if still doesn't owe to her promises,I will have to surprise her with a visit
1 person likes this
@Kanubanu (3090)
24 Sep 21
I can say that she doesn't want to visit your home, may be some past memories