A solution was much closer than I thought
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (381760)
Rockingham, Australia
January 8, 2022 6:39pm CST
I’ve written about getting lost trying to get out of a big hospital. By the time I got back to the car park it was getting on towards nightfall. We live in a gated community and I’d forgotten that the gates shut at 6 pm. There is supposed to be number plate recognition, there is also a code you can use and everyone has a little device with two buttons, one of which activates each gate.
Although I drove up slowly, the recognition thing didn’t work so I backed up to the code machine. That number had recently been changed and, although I thought I knew it, I couldn’t get it right. I’d completely forgotten about the device with the buttons.
I was just getting out my phone to ring our friends for the code (they were staying away from the village) when there was a tap on the car-window and a village couple who were out walking asked if they could help. I was very relieved to see them. The stupid thing was that the device with the buttons was within reach in the console of the car. Oh well, hopefully it’s another mistake that I won’t make again.
Photo of a native Christmas tree
28 people like this
27 responses
@kaylachan (84699)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 22
I'm glad you were doing okay, and you managed to get home safely. Gates can be a real pain, sometimes. I lived in a gated complex for five years.
4 people like this
@kaylachan (84699)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 22
@JudyEv Yeah. I think you wrote about that, didn't you?
2 people like this
@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 22
@kaylachan Yes, I've written quite a bit about both places.
1 person likes this
@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
9 Jan 22
When it rains it pours! At least you got back in...

4 people like this
@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
9 Jan 22
One reason I take Pretty with me when I go to the doctor is because I forget things the doctor tells me. I'm paying attention, at the time, but not enough that I can remember what she says when Pretty asks me later. I hate forgetting things.
I'm glad the nice couple were out walking and could help you.
3 people like this

@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
9 Jan 22
@JudyEv Pretty and I remind each other of stuff all the time. She gets mad when I remember something she doesn't. *shrug*
1 person likes this

@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Jan 22
You will get used to it in time. You had a lot on your mind that evening
4 people like this

@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
9 Jan 22
I'm sure you were worried and stressed about Vince. That was nice of them to help you. Hope Vince is still improving.
2 people like this


@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
9 Jan 22
It's OK. You will know for next time. Beautiful tree.
1 person likes this
@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Jan 22
@LindaOHio Maybe they're not all the same. But here they're locked. I think there is a back-up system if the power goes out because that would be huge problem if there was a fire inside or some other catastrophe.
1 person likes this
@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
10 Jan 22
@JudyEv I didn't realize that they locked the gates in a gated community. I just thought there was a gate and perhaps a security person there.
1 person likes this

@oahuwriter (26773)
• United States
10 Jan 22
That's good! Glad you live in a nice place. When you're worried, so much too, it's good to live with nice neighbors.
1 person likes this
@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Jan 22
@oahuwriter I'm fine thanks. All is well at the moment.
1 person likes this
@oahuwriter (26773)
• United States
10 Jan 22
@JudyEv
Wonderful! How you holding up?
1 person likes this

@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
10 Jan 22
I have ended up in a similar situation with a coded door that quit working at a certain time of the evening, when my first husband was in a long term care facility. I was so tired I could not figure out a logical way to get out of the locked lobby. To this day I do not remember how I managed, it was before cell phones. When your loved one is sick even things that you know cease to come to mind. I am so glad someone was willing to help you.
1 person likes this
@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 22
You poor soul. That would be awful. I wonder how you got out? 

@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Jan 22
You're learning all sorts of things. How does it feel?
(Nice tree.)
1 person likes this

@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Jan 22
@JudyEv Well, you're used to hubby driving all the time, aren't you?
1 person likes this
@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 22
@BarBaraPrz True and if you're not driving, you don't take so much notice.
1 person likes this

@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
9 Jan 22
At times, little things engross our minds so much that we forget about things we should not.
Hopefully, things are more settled at your wnd now.
1 person likes this
@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
9 Jan 22
@JudyEv
Yes some experiences make us better prepared.
1 person likes this
@Aquitaine24 (12000)
• San Jose, California
9 Jan 22
That’s a beautiful plant. Is that the real name
1 person likes this
@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
9 Jan 22
wow
so i will say one more time, all of that plus stress - you are amazing!
1 person likes this
@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
9 Jan 22
@JudyEv i just calls it as I sees it
1 person likes this











Thanks. I'll try to do that.













