I Have This Weird Thing
By celticeagle
@celticeagle (189792)
Boise, Idaho
April 19, 2022 3:54pm CST
Sort of embarrassing to write about but I will.
I have this weird attachment issue. If I have an interaction with someone and it is positive and even sometimes uplifting(and touches me for whatever reason) I can't just move on. I have to have these interactions again. For instance:
When I was in the mental hospital back in 2017 I had the nicest nurse. He was so caring and kind. He really stood out. So, after I had been out and back home for about a week I had to go back and see him.
I've had other interactions like this in my life. The first driver yesterday struck me that way.
Am I weird?
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13 responses
@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
20 Apr 22
I was the same as you. And I got hurt when I felt like I was being ignored. So I learned to control myself and now I am not like that anymore.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 22
I do control it for the most part. Nice to have nice feelings about some people instead of dread.
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@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
19 Apr 22
No, you're not weird. Did the nurse think you were?
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 22
No. He was happy to see me again.
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@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
20 Apr 22
@celticeagle That's good.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Apr 22
I do the same thing. I also sometimes have a distaste for some for no reason at all.
But I get what you mean. I had a nice nurse once in AZ that after I was out of the hospital I kept in contact on FB for yrs. Until I suddenly realized one day when I had moved here, I'd probably never see her again plus we had little in common.
My favorite lab tech is coming to get some blood tomorrow 
in fact.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 22
Same here. My first impression of someone is hard to get around.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
20 Apr 22
@celticeagle like that for everyone I think. It's not weird, gf
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@kaylachan (84699)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Apr 22
I'd say you're unique, and you're only wired if you let yourself believe you are.
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Apr 22
Not weird at all it is just that you feel the love and kindness that surround them and you want more, Perhaps one day you will find someone like that who will remain and be friends with you,
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 22
Love and kindness should give us a good feeling.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
20 Apr 22
Quite normal. And if one is lucky that friendship can last forever.
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
20 Apr 22
This is not weird but that's not good too. It happens sometimes we like a person so much at first sight that we want to meet him/her again and again without knowing that this person also has the same feelings for us. Sometimes such behavior of ours can be harmful to us. So we must be careful.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 22
It's part of being out in the world I guess.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Apr 22
@LadyDuck .......Yes, I like being human.
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@LadyDuck (502187)
• Italy
21 Apr 22
@celticeagle - Exactly, it is part of the human nature to like some people.
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
20 Apr 22
Not really. You have an attachment to people that have been kind to you. Perfectly natural.
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@Hildasalom (953)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Apr 22
Maybe you just enjoy their company because they give you positive vibes, it is not weird to me. And if the other person is also enjoying your company and wants to see you it is ok but if not you are forcing issues and maybe they were just being nice.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 22
I can see where that could be true too.
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@ihasaquestion (8273)
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20 Apr 22
You're an empath and that is normal in an abnormal world.
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