Saddest thing...
By Toni
@toniganzon (72285)
Philippines
May 2, 2022 7:07am CST
I suddenly thought of someone that used to be very important in my life. I made the person my priority but the saddest thing was I was just.a minute of that person's life.
Good thing I realized that I should value myself more. Coz I don't deserve a minute. I deserve an eternity.
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@moffittjc (118300)
• Gainesville, Florida
4 May 22
It’s sad that this happens way too often in our lives. I think of all the hundreds of people who have been special in my life at one point or another, and most of them are not even in my life anymore.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
8 May 22
It's really sad because when I start a relationship with someone, I never really consider ending it. Be it romantic or a friendly relationship.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 May 22
@moffittjc yeah, that should be the case. But I guess not for some people.
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@moffittjc (118300)
• Gainesville, Florida
8 May 22
@toniganzon I agree. When we make a connection with someone (whether it be friendship or relationship) we think it’s something that’s going to last indefinitely
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
2 May 22
Exactly! Sometimes it takes time to realize that.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@LadyDuck It's been more than two months since I've stopped communicating to this person.
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@LadyDuck (457226)
• Switzerland
3 May 22
@toniganzon I hope you are moving on from this negative person.
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@LindaOHio (155291)
• United States
3 May 22
I'm glad you have moved on from this person.
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@arunima25 (85239)
• Bangalore, India
6 May 22
I am sorry about that. It must have been hurtful. But glad that you realised it in time and moved on
. You deserve better
. You deserve better 1 person likes this
@sharonelton (24777)
• Lichfield, England
2 May 22
I'm sorry to hear that. But I'm glad you have come to realise that you should value yourself.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
2 May 22
Yep, took me awhile to realize that but at least now I am free. And I'm at peace. I'm not hurting anymore.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
2 May 22
I am sorry. I hope that you are happy being single. They say before we could love others, we should love ourselves first.
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@Adie04 (17361)
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3 May 22
@toniganzon Not just love ourselves, but respect ourselves too. If not taking care of own health, who will be.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
2 May 22
They definitely don't. Self-worth is really important.
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@quantum2020 (12040)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
2 May 22
The mos valuable is in ourselves
That is a gift we can share with others
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
2 May 22
Good that you realised it without loosing anything
we should value ourselves
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@RebeccasFarm (86326)
• United States
2 May 22
I am glad you got away from that devaluation Toni.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
2 May 22
Yes, because true friends will not only give you a minute of their time.
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@LotusEyes (2718)
• India
3 May 22
Self respect is very important. Now you can live peacefully
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