Mother’s Day started off great

@shaggin (71664)
United States
May 8, 2022 7:15pm CST
My stepson went to his moms house Friday night so I didn’t get to spend the day with him today. Saturday morning my husband ripped up the bathroom floor and toilet and started laying down the slate flooring. So we didn’t have a toilet for the day or overnight. My oldest daughter stays up much later at night then I do and I didn’t want her having to go the bathroom in the middle of the night and going across the street in the dark to my parents house to use their toilet. So for the first time I willingly let her stay the night at her boyfriends house. She will be 18 in two weeks and will probably stay there most nights so I figure it’s not much different. I forgot to message her boyfriend today to tell him the toilet was back on until 4:30pm. She had sent me an email earlier wishing me a happy Mother’s Day. I had a wonderful day with my husband and son and my baby. My son was so helpful with the baby so I could get things done and my husband made me dinner and got me a new handheld gps, flowers and chocolates. My father also brought me flowers. I got sad when during dinner my daughter dropped by and asked for $5 so her boyfriend his friend and her could go get ice cream. I was hoping she would come home and spend some time with me. I guess I’ll only see her for a few minutes today when I pick her up from her boyfriends house before I go to bed. Photo is of the gifts from my husband.
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@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
9 May 22
It sounds like pretty good day overall Happy Mother's Day!
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
13 May 22
@snowy22315 it was a nice day. I held out hope all day my daughter would come home early to spend time with me but she didn’t. Maybe next year. Her bday is coming up and I don’t think she intends to be home then either and at 18 that day I won’t have a say in anything in her life anymore. I hope she will make responsible choices. I am going to see if she wants me to buy a cake and ice cream even if she doesn’t eat it here and take it to her boyfriends for her and her friends I still want her to have one if she wants and to have a good day.
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@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
13 May 22
@shaggin I hope she knows what he is doing Do you approve of the boyfriend?
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
17 May 22
@snowy22315 nope she’s been awful since she started dating him. I am not a fan of him or her behavior since she’s been dating him at all.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 May 22
Nice gifts from your husband and your father. They sound very thoughtful. You are blessed. I can only imagine the challenges of an 18 y/o.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
13 May 22
@CarolDm my husband gives really nice gifts. He’s always finding me things that are things I need and won’t buy myself usually. He pays way more then I would for things. I feel guilty he spends so much on me but I can’t really do anything about it.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 May 22
@shaggin You deserve these special gifts. Enjoy.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
13 May 22
@CarolDM thank you very much
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@RebeccasFarm (86757)
• United States
9 May 22
Happy Mothers Day..oh your parents live across the street, that is good Shanny.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
9 May 22
@RebeccasFarm yes it has come in handy many times.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
9 May 22
I am so glad you received gifts and enjoy the special day. I am sorry that your daughter did not spend more time with you.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
10 May 22
@LadyDuck thank you. Maybe next mothers day she will want to spend more time with me I’ll hold out hope for that.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
11 May 22
@shaggin - I hope she will. Teenagers have those moments, but growing up this may change.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
9 May 22
It sounds like most of your day went well and you got some nice gifts. Happy Mother's Day!
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
13 May 22
@Daddyevil The gps is such an awesome gift! I can’t wait to get out and hide some geocaches with it when I get some free time .. someday
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
13 May 22
@DaddyEvil that is correct
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
13 May 22
@shaggin You know with babies you have no "free time".
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
20 May 22
My wife was so very happy for we went out for a date to honor her as the best mother of my 6 children and in the evening she treated with a sumptuous dinner by her youngest son.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
21 May 22
@Nakitakona that sounds like such a wonderful Mother’s Day for your wife!
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
22 May 22
@shaggin Yes, it was. She's very happy about it.
@jstory07 (134458)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 May 22
You did get some nice gifts and some pretty flowers. Happy Mother's day.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
13 May 22
@jstory07 these are the beautiful roses my father gave me.
@RasmaSandra (73408)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 May 22
You got some nice gifts, I am glad you still had a nice day. I hope you have a good start to the new week.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
13 May 22
@RasmaSandra gosh I didn’t realize I had so many responses on here I hadn’t gotten to. Thank you for your kind words.
@JudyEv (325755)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 May 22
Kids growing up sometimes become a little bit inconsiderate. I'm glad the rest of your day was so pleasant.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
10 May 22
@JudyEv yes the teen years can be a challenge. Hopefully someday she will want to spend the day with me. I’ll have to patiently wait for that time.
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@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
9 May 22
Happy mother's day
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
10 May 22
@erictsuma thank you!
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