Someone Who Cares

@flapiz (22402)

United Kingdom

May 17, 2022 6:15pm CST

I'm on nights this week and my boyfriend has been nothing but lovely. I came home from nights and I found him washing my dishes before he left for work. Also he made dinner tonight. It was a ready to eat oven baked pizza which he put more cheese and toppings on but I still truly appreciate it. It is lovely to have someone to help you out and make things light. He is a promising "life partner" material.

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@LadyDuck (457385)

• Switzerland

18 May 22

I hope this one is the right one for you, at least he also likes food.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

19 May 22

Well yeah that is at least a plus on this all. We are more compatible.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

19 May 22

@LadyDuck Well he does seem to enjoy cooking. I'm not sure about other household stuff.

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@LadyDuck (457385)

• Switzerland

19 May 22

@flapiz I hope he enjoys cooking and doing what he does, because if he is only doing to this "to please you", it's not good.

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@JimBo452020 (42629)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

You said the same about the last one

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

Hahaha that is so true. Maybe I should add a little caution on this.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

19 May 22

@JimBo452020 I know but I also can't stay too afraid. But you are right maybe not put too much of my hopes on this one. Love moderately.

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@JimBo452020 (42629)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

@flapiz Maybe think Once bitten, twice shy

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@toniganzon (72285)

• Philippines

17 May 22

Is it the old boyfriend or a new one?

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@toniganzon (72285)

• Philippines

18 May 22

@flapiz Happy for you.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

New one Toni. The old one cooks better but I can train this new one. I've moved on.

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@JudyEv (325348)

• Rockingham, Australia

18 May 22

That's really kind of him to do that. It's nice when partners share in the work at home.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

And what makes it more nice is that he is not usually like this.

I am trying to house train him.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

19 May 22

@JudyEv Hahaha that is true. Some people are more good at the start.

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@JudyEv (325348)

• Rockingham, Australia

18 May 22

@flapiz Some become less inclined to help once the situation is on a permanent basis. I'd be listening to Jim's advice.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

17 May 22

Sounds like things are working out. I hope so.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

So far so good but we will have to see when I move back to the mainland.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 22

Good luck.

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@erictsuma (9726)

• Mombasa, Kenya

18 May 22

Yes you're very lucky to have a caring and loving partner. Am happy for you

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

Well hopefully this one would last. This is my third try on a boyfriend and I am tired of starting over and over again

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@erictsuma (9726)

• Mombasa, Kenya

18 May 22

@flapiz it's okay, but it's nice to express how you feel

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

19 May 22

@erictsuma Yes that is always true. I'm always someone who is very much true to my feelings.

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@marlina (154166)

• Canada

18 May 22

He sounds that way!

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

19 May 22

Well yes but I am yet to find out if he is consistent.

@Chellezhere (5363)

• United States

17 May 22

I hope your relationship work out as you hope. The pizza looks delicious.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

18 May 22

Thank you. I am trying my best to keep my expectations low but I can't help but be optimistic too.

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@Chellezhere (5363)

• United States

18 May 22

@flapiz I hear you.

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@zhangxueying (2945)

• China

18 May 22

I'm glad to see you happy

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

19 May 22

Thank you :)