Let go of perfectionism
By aubrey
@averygirl72 (37715)
Philippines
June 17, 2022 10:29pm CST
I guess the root cause of my depression and feeling sick and low all the time is I want my life to be so perfect. From big things like a new house to small things like a soft silky hair. I'm not happy because there is so many things not being what I want them to be.
I will just say it's just fine I will just enjoy the things that are perfect in my life and those not perfect I just accept and embrace and let them be.
Do you have many imperfect things in your life too? What bothers you the most
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@averygirl72 (37715)
• Philippines
18 Jun 22
I'm actually feeling a lot better now and less miserable as I learn to accept imperfections in life
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@Beestring (13275)
• Hong Kong
18 Jun 22
There are good times and bad times in life. I accept it. No particular problem bothering me right now. I'm feeling okay.
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@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
At the moment I am actually starting to feel depressed due to the fact that my visa is taking too long and being away from my boyfriend. But well I am still trying my best to be positive. It is hard though cause this low point actually accentuates other imperfect things in life and no I just find myself staring into space.
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
@averygirl72 I hope so too. I don't like being sad.
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@averygirl72 (37715)
• Philippines
20 Jun 22
I just hope both our situations improve and will be happier again
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@averygirl72 (37715)
• Philippines
18 Jun 22
Yes for some life is mostly perfect but for others it's mostly imperfect and that's life
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
21 Jun 22
Wanting one's life to be perfect? That's impossible of impossibility. He may get his dismal way of life good but not better.
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
22 Jun 22
@averygirl72 I remember a line from the popular song, "The Impossible Dream" - to dream, the impossible dream.
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
18 Jun 22
Yes because life is not perfect. You just have to learn to appreciate things at it is and enjoy life to the fullest. I have some disappointments but it is ok. I know there is a special reason why it is like that. 
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jun 22
Yes I have so many imperfect things in my life and only very few perfect but as days go by I perfected some.
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Jun 22
@averygirl72 Nobody is perfect.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 22
What bothers me the most?
I need to think about that.
Generally speaking most things just glide over my bald head
