what a mess

@lady1993 (27221)
Philippines
July 14, 2022 2:18am CST
It's my first time seeing a family physically fight with each other. We've never fought like that, ever. They have such tempers. My teenage cousin and his mom had a huge fight and were actually trying to punch each other. They were throwing things at each other. The father was holding his son back and my 2 aunts were holding back the mom. I had no idea what to do, was scared to get in between because my parents would throw a fit if I got hurt. Anyway, I helped in keeping the door closed because the son was trying to get it open to get to his mom. I really hope they sort this all out, seeing a psychologist would be good but it's not well accepted in this country yet.
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• Shenzhen, China
14 Jul 22
I met lots of such cases,family fight is not rare here.to my disappointment,someone were patient with these persons out of family,but impatient with family,they are used to fight with family,but seldom have fight with presons out of family.It's a ridiculous circumstance here.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
15 Jul 22
Sorry to hear that. We fight within my family too since my mom has really short patience, good thing my dad and I are always cool headed and we never take it too far.
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• Shenzhen, China
15 Jul 22
@lady1993 ,glad to know there are clear-minded members in a family fight of you.Keeping mind clear and behaving in moderate way is very important.
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@Beestring (15373)
• Hong Kong
14 Jul 22
It appears that the persons involved in the fight are quite hot tempered. It might help if the root cause of the fight can be identified.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
15 Jul 22
True, they need to really talk this out, but I think both of them are full of pride.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
16 Jul 22
It must be something serious for your cousin to fight against his mom. I still believe that kids should respect their mothers and not fight with them. I do hope they could settle their difference soon enough.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
18 Jul 22
Truly, they need to address it soon before their relationship becomes too strained.
@yanzalong (19091)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 22
Fights may crop up in the family. But if one of them gives in, fight will not happen.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
15 Jul 22
Yeah, unfortunately they're both easily triggered.
@stanley777 (9401)
• Philippines
11 Jan 23
how is the situation now? Hopefully it is better
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
11 Jan 23
I think they still live separately which is quite sad
@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
14 Jul 22
Somebody must had done something really wrong
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
15 Jul 22
from my perspective, they both did wrong. They're just so proud to admit it.
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
14 Jul 22
That looks scary to watch. I don't like to watch a fight. I wonder what the fight was all about. I hope they are calm now.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
15 Jul 22
They seem to have a lot of issues. Unfortunately i do not think they will resolve it soon, it's so sad.
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• United States
15 Jul 22
It is so uncomfortable to see family members fight like that. I hope they can resolve their differences.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
31 Aug 22
Seems like they did... since they're not fighting anymore. They still seem to live separately though