Is Platonic love practical?
@aninditasen (18198)
Raurkela, India
July 15, 2022 8:36am CST
The internet giving access to lot of connections sometimes creates strange problems in our lives. Some connections take fascination by seeing your profile photo fall in love with you and say its true love and ask you to accept that platonic love.
I haven't seen a person, haven't met him or know anything about the person; how is it possible to fall in love with such a person.
In India we have arranged marriage but the boy and the girl are allowed to meet each other and talk to each other at least once or twice.
So how can love get ignited without seeing each other or knowing each other.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 22
Yes, as I did, but my husband and me met at least once at our home and spoke to each other. I was 23 and he 35 and we could judge at least each other's attitude towards life.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 22
@akanetuk It may be but the persons in love have to meet each other at some point of time.
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
15 Jul 22
I can tell you about my case. Before marriage, we met twice and talked to each other over the phone for less than time in 3 months when our marriage was fixed and happened, still we judged each other. I remember my wife was asked many times by my father-in-law if she agrees to marry me and she always said yes.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 22
You had at least met each other twice and spoke to each other on the phone. That gave you a chance to know each other to some extent.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
15 Jul 22
It is not love but admiration which is one way of getting interest to know more about the person which will lead to love. 
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 22
From a distance it's not admiration but infatuation. You get infatuated by seeing someone's photo.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 22
That's what I too wonder, how can someone fall in love without meeting each other.
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@akanetuk (2132)
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16 Jul 22
Yes not possible, but there has to be a begin point to know someone and that is establishing a communication, talking, then transmitting to meeting, and further interactions.
@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Jul 22
@aninditasen You must know a person before you love them.you might think them handsome and want their attention but not love them.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 22
Yes, it is fascination and it may not turn into love. To love each other you have to meet each other to know each other.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
18 Jul 22
@thelme55 That's true. It takes years to know someone.
@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
17 Jul 22
@aninditasen Yes, it May not. You have to meet oftentimes to know each other. However, it will take years to know each other the positive and negative sides of the characters.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 22
We can be friends from a distance like in Facebook but falling in love something that I cannot agree to.
@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
17 Jul 22
It's because you would interact and be open about your true selves, perhaps? you may not see him/her physically but you know what runs in his/her mind.
Who knows the real reason? Often we are braver to reveal our thoughts when we don't show our faces?
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
17 Jul 22
That may be but I oftened opened up to my husband when I was close to him not away from him.
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