To meet or not to meet my friend who arrived from California

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@cacay1 (83223)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 24, 2022 1:27am CST
My friend Lyn, her hubby and their twins arrived Cagayan de Oro City last July 19. Her husband Daniel is an American. They would spend some weeks vacation in their newly acquired house and lot in Cagayan de Oro City . I was so excited for I can see again ther twins Keagan and Kaliyah who are now 3 years old. They were here 3 years ago, twins were just 8 months old. Lyn was my former student in college and she became my best friend. The problem now is she and her family would want to meet me in PANAGATAN a resto beside the sea near home. It's just a walking distance. Why is this a problem to me, my sister doesn't want me to go. She would only allow after 15 days from their arrival to be sure if they are covid negative. My friend and her family will go to Cebu next week too, to check their Condo they bought online 2 years ago and from there they'll fly back to California. It's hard to persuade my sister. If you were me, what shall you do? Thanks for sharing your bright mind. Sharing is caring. Image credit to Facebook gif
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@jstory07 (134388)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Jul 22
Ask them if they have had all their shots. I am sure they have.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 22
@jstory07 oh yes, I forgot about it. Thank you Judy. I surely message Lyn after replying you.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
24 Jul 22
@jstory07 Many vaccinated people have been found contaminated and with no symptoms. I should ask them to be tested.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Jul 22
@LadyDuck, it's so true. By the way, my friend didn't reply me if they're vaccinated, and boostered. Maybe she felt offended. It's up to her. I'll never meet her if she won't reply me.
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@Beestring (13298)
• Hong Kong
24 Jul 22
HK requires people visiting or returning to HK stay in hotel for quarantine for 7 days. They have to do Covid testing when they leave the hotel. Is there such a requirement in the Philippines.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
24 Jul 22
This is what was done in most of the countries in the starting and when it's spreading fast and they should start it again. @Beestring
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 22
@Beestring, it's not anymore required in Philippines after having zero virus, I hope it will restored for Philippines has now 3 800 covid positive. We're scared again. In Cagayan de Oro City where I live, from zero covid now 28
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@Beestring (13298)
• Hong Kong
24 Jul 22
@cacay1 We have over 4K cases daily.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Jul 22
In fact today Covid-19 is less dangerous. Besides, I think it is likely that they are vaccinated and probably you also had vaccination, too. If so, why are you afraid of? Besides, they may even have the Covid-19 test before boarding and arrival to your country.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Jul 22
@cacay1 Even though, I guess you are vaccinated. You shall be fine to it. I really don't think the Covid-19 is horrible today.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jul 22
@youless, it's still rampaging in Philippines. In c Cagayan de Oro City alone, almost 235 confined. Good for you no more virus.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Jul 22
@youless, so sad, no more testing to happen during arrivals in NAIA Airport. My friend didn't reply me if they're vaccinated and boostered. I am hesitant to meet them any day this week.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
24 Jul 22
Are they tested at the airport when they come in your country? Being vaccinated means nothing, a nurse fully vaccinated was positive, but without symptoms and contaminated several colleagues here.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
24 Jul 22
@cacay1 Do not take risks, the vaccine only protect partially, may be, not even sure it protects.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
24 Jul 22
@cacay1 Exactly we now have many doctors and nurses contaminated and they are all fully vaccinated.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 22
@LadyDuck I'm still waiting for their answers,if not tested I better think of an alibi. It will be risky.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Jul 22
If they’ve had all the covid vaccinations and boosters I would go.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Jul 22
@RubyHawk, my friend didn't reply me. I messaged her thru Facebook messenger, I saw she has read my message but no reply. It means they're not vaccinated.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jul 22
@RubyHawk until now no reply from my friend Lyn if they are vaccinated or boostered, so means that they're not vaccinated and boostered. I won't meet them, better be safe than sorry.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Jul 22
@cacay1 Oh I’m so sorry.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 22
You could ask them to take the rapid covid kit test just to be safe and sure.That's one way.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
24 Jul 22
Sometimes these rapid tests are not reliable.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 22
@sica98, I'm still waiting for Lyn's response if they're all vaccinated and boostered. Perhaps the little twins not vaccinated.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 22
@cacay1 Only time will tell then I suppose.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
24 Jul 22
My friend's sisters arrived form the US and they all got Covid. Since she was vaccinated it was mild. I think you should avoid that visit.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Jul 22
@allknowing, my goodness it's scary. Thanks for the info. I may decline to meet them. Plus, she didn't reply me if they're vaccinated and boostered.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
24 Jul 22
It's a tough situation you're in. But I guess they might have taken the test before leaving the airport.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
24 Jul 22
@cacay1 can't say. It's up to you if you want to meet her you should. There is always a risk.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 22
@sjvg1976, despite tested no guarantee. What if they're contaminated in the airport and the virus mutates after 3 days.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Jul 22
@sjvg1976, my friend didn't reply me if they're vaccinated and boostered. I sent it thru Facebook messenger. This morning, I noticed she has read it but never care to reply. I think they're not vaccinated and boostered.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
25 Jul 22
I think they are vaccinated and boostered if they were not required to have hotel quarantine. My sister came home on the 8th, from California and she was required to be tested 48hrs before her flight. She was fully vaccinated and boostered,no more quarantine. I am glad she's negative... Maybe your friend got offended a bit but that's understandable.. COVID is still here...
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jul 22
@brokenbee, aw okay I'm clarified now. You may be right my friend felt offended, but it's not the reason not to reply me. It's okay if she won't invite me again.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jul 22
@brokenbee, that's so true.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
28 Jul 22
@cacay1 yes. And it is just right to take precautions..
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@Ronrybs (17854)
• London, England
24 Jul 22
Knotty problem, I think I'd go, but maybe wear a mask. Just in case
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 22
@Ronrybs, I hope my sister understands. She's afraid because California has high covid rate. There'll be no distancing to observe that time.
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24 Jul 22
we had a visitor from canada once that we couldnt get rid and talked all the timeof lol.My mother was getting desperate , she even followed her into the toilet and carried on talking non-stop . In the end my father made my mother take her on holiday to Wales to get her away from him lol
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 22
@58lordstreet, we can't blame your mom. She felt tired listening and perhaps with some fears of the virus.