Loving the wrong way / myLot

Calcutta, India

September 8, 2022 11:07pm CST

We all fall in love. However, some of us don't know how to express our love. Some of us show possessiveness, some don't have an inch of insecurity. Some curb our wishes and aspirations. Some let us be free and independent. I think there's no right or wrong way in love. Yes, force and violence is not love. But apart from these two, as long as the partner is not cheating on you, you should accept them as they are. That's what I think. What do you think? What kind oflove have you always cherished?

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6 responses

josefina

@josie_ (10033)

• Philippines

9 Sep 22

I agree that people can show their love in different ways but that does not mean "there's no right or wrong way in love". Successful relationships are based on mutual agreements. "love" that is based on hormonal changes would be a very turbulent emotional rollercoaster ride.

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Aparna Sen

@Dreamerby (10111)

• Calcutta, India

9 Sep 22

Yes you are right. Marriage is an agreement

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Judy Story

@jstory07 (148701)

• Roseburg, Oregon

9 Sep 22

My husband and I get along perfect and we talk everything over with each other. Than we decide on something and go for it.

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Aparna Sen

@Dreamerby (10111)

• Calcutta, India

9 Sep 22

Wow...good that you two share that kindof trust. Hope you get along well forever

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Judy Story

@jstory07 (148701)

• Roseburg, Oregon

9 Sep 22

@Dreamerby 30 years so far.

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Jenaisle

@Jenaisle (16568)

• Philippines

9 Sep 22

True love is unconditional - it has no reasons for existing, except that person loves another person. Most often, we don't know what exactly made us fall in love, but in the end, there are no specific reasons - just that you love the person. Love is also patient and kind and rejoices in the happiness of the beloved.

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Aparna Sen

@Dreamerby (10111)

• Calcutta, India

11 Sep 22

True. It's hard to find that kind of love.

Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (42727)

• Delhi, India

9 Sep 22

For a relationship to be good one needs to respect his/her partner, need to trust, and most importantly there should be freedom in it, one should never compel his/her partner to do what you like. Then they should compromise things for each other.

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Aparna Sen

@Dreamerby (10111)

• Calcutta, India

11 Sep 22

Yes that is true.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (502148)

• Italy

9 Sep 22

Love is respect and devotion. I disagree that we should accept a partner as he/she is as long as there is no cheating. There are many situations that lead to a rupture.

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Anindita Sengupta

@aninditasen (18198)

• Raurkela, India

9 Sep 22

I always liked passionate loving people and my husband was so. Yes, he was possessive and often tried to boss me.

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