People who help you, do they think you are not capable of doing things or they just want to help you?
Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
September 15, 2022 9:19am CST
I was mostly asking for help but also helped others, which was sometimes dismissed so, I didn't pay a closer attention to this. I ask for things I don't know, not for things I can do by myself. Finding out that a gas company decided to write me a triple amount for the gas for the last month, as a sudden event in my life, it made me, not asked for a help but made me to complain. This person said I need to write some statement and she can help me. I was going to finish a relation with this person and said no, it is okay. after that, I got a compliment which was not a compliment at all, that I'm stubborn. If you don't say anything, that isn't yes or no but this lack of respect made me think that this person loved to be relied on but really never respected me and still thinks i would rather be without a gas and not contact a gas company. I contacted them and gas company said they will send me a new bill so, everything is okay. I am responsible, always had been. It is an awful feeling absorbing negative energy and when others want to give it to you. And, yes, this person contacted me again, offering me something, which I ignored. If you don't respect me, don't call me. I am not desperate anymore and don't believe in tough love. If I am kind to you, show me that or find another person to torture, not me. I always wanted peace, nothing else. Your experience?
6 people like this
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
since it is a family member, i got softer over the years, hoping and waiting for good things to happen but since they didn't and i was also treated badly, it is a nice feeling saying no just, i had to repeat myself a lot to this person.
• United States
That is rude number one..and I do not understand their reasoning of what is the reward for their disrespectful actions. I am so sorry this happens to you ..I have it a lot too. But did they sort out the bill for you? Because 3 times the amount is too much.