Do they want the stuff or not?
By Fleur
@Fleura (34927)
United Kingdom
November 17, 2022 4:45am CST
I have been a blood donor practically all my adult life, apart from a few years when I left the country and also time off for two pregnancies.
During Covid there were appeals for blood donors to keep giving, since stocks were falling with everyone staying at home and being afraid to go to crowded places.
So I tried to make an appointment, but in order to reduce crowding, incease social distancing, make time for extra cleaning etc. the blood service had reduced the number of appointments so it was really difficult. I managed to get one about 5 months ahead.
When the day was almost upon us, I got a call cancelling the appointment and asking me to make another. Again, hardly any were available and I was offered an appointment miles away or months in advance (or both!)
Again months passed, and the day before the appointment it was cancelled again!
So I tried a third time. As usual I called the central booking service and was given an appointment at the main centre which is the nearest to me now that they no longer run the mobile blood collection clinics they used to do. It was still some months ahead. I wrote the date and time in my diary.
As the date approached I noticed I didn’t seem to have received the pre-appointment checklist they usually send out. But since I invariably forget to take it to the appointment with me I figured it didn’t really matter anyway.
The blood donor centre is at a big hospital five or six miles away. Most of the time I cycyle there, because getting there by car is a hassle and parking is a nightmare. Although donors are allowed free parking, it’s impossible to get to the designated area behind the clinic separately, you still have to queue with everyone else looking for parking spaces.
However on this particular day I also wanted to go and buy some drain pipe and fittings, not really feasible on a bicycle, so I had decided that I would combine the trip and pick up the bits I needed on the way home. Of course since I don’t usually drive there I hadn’t realised quite how bad it would be and hadn’t allowed enough time. After queueing for 15 minutes I still hadn’t even got to the parking space and had missed my appointment slot!
When I was finally able to park I rushed in apologetically, hoping they could still fit me in, only to be told they had no record of my appointment that day or any other day!
Well I certainly didn’t imagine making the booking, so presumably the telephone person must have neglected to enter it into the system.
After that I just gave up. I mean seriously, how hard are you supposed to try to give blood? If they don’t want it, I’m happy to keep it thanks!
That was about a year ago. Then recently I happened to be at the hospital for something completely different, and thought I would pop in to the donor centre and see if the experience was any better in person. They were able to offer me an appointment the following week – and when I returned on the appointed day (by bicycle of course!) everything went smoothly – Hallelujah!
After the donation I took the opportunity to make another appointment for 4 months’ time. I preferred to see the staff actually write it down rather than trust some voice on the telephone. So maybe I am finally ‘back in the loop’ so to speak.
Well I certainly didn’t imagine making the booking, so presumably the telephone person must have neglected to enter it into the system.
After that I just gave up. I mean seriously, how hard are you supposed to try to give blood? If they don’t want it, I’m happy to keep it thanks!
That was about a year ago. Then recently I happened to be at the hospital for something completely different, and thought I would pop in to the donor centre and see if the experience was any better in person. They were able to offer me an appointment the following week – and when I returned on the appointed day (by bicycle of course!) everything went smoothly – Hallelujah!
After the donation I took the opportunity to make another appointment for 4 months’ time. I preferred to see the staff actually write it down rather than trust some voice on the telephone. So maybe I am finally ‘back in the loop’ so to speak.12 people like this
10 responses
@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
17 Nov 22
I used to give blood on a regular basis here but after I was diagnosed with skin cancer, they told me they couldn't accept my blood anymore. *shrug* Their loss.
I'm glad you can still give blood.
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 22
@DaddyEvil Is that because all horses are healthy - the others go to the knacker's yard?
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 22
Many people are complaining they have made it more difficult. They have stopped the mobile clinics they used to do, when they would set up a temporary collection depot at a village hall or football club or even a large workplace. Apparently it was not efficient for them in terms of the number of staff required. It was much easier for us though!
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
17 Nov 22
And don't let them kid you, the American Red Cross threw all kinds of blood away, because it was beyond the date of being useful. It's ridiculous, the way those large businesses work. Nobody knows what's going on, especially the ones who are in charge!
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 22
Well I know they only keep it for a set period. After that they don't throw it away, but they do use it for other things such as research (I know because I used to work in medical research and we sometimes used it!) But that's OK, after all it's no good giving people the stuff if it isn't in a good state!
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
17 Nov 22
@Fleura That's not a blood shortage, that's called very bad management!!
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@MarieCoyle (59106)
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18 Nov 22
I have wished I could give blood for years now, but due to health conditions, they claim mine is not acceptable.
I try to say thank you to everyone who has given blood or does it regularly. My son has transfusions, as his body does not make enough blood. Long story. But it's people like YOU who help keep him alive, and you have my sincere thank you!
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
18 Nov 22
Oh that's kind, thank you! I have been lucky so far and always been quite healthy, but some of my friends have needed blood - a couple of them after giving birth, and one during cancer treatment - so I was glad it was there for them when needed.
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@MarieCoyle (59106)
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18 Nov 22
@Fleura
When you give blood, you are giving the gift of life. There's no greater gift than that. As I said, it's much appreciated. There was a time I had to have blood transfusions, and now I am still here. My son would not have survived without them, either. So, we thank everyone we know who has been so generous as to give theirs.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
17 Nov 22
That was indeed a hassle. They should not make it that difficult as you are donating your blood and you are doing a favour.
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@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Nov 22
Sorry that got so messed up back then. Hopefully now things keep going right
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@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Nov 22
Something a bit similar happened here too. There used to be a mobile clinic you could go to when it came to your district but then it changed and you had to travel into the middle of the city to donate. I think we're too old now.
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
17 Nov 22
I've never gave blood, I've never had to have blood either.
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