My "Aunt" Just Died

United States
December 1, 2022 7:09am CST
Christine McVie dies (Fleetwood Mac) and then the movie expert from my movie site died, and now a family friend. I'm closer to her more than all my aunts combined, who I didn't get to know because of distance. 62 years old. I've known her since I was 8. She and her sisters worked with my parents for 25 years. Her niece asked to borrow money (before I knew about this). I texted her I was sorry. She didn't reply, and it bothered me, so I called her, and when she told me she was at the hospital, I said, "Sure" and she told me she'd have it by the 28th. On the 29th I texted her, and never got a response. My mom sent me an e-mail last night telling me she had passed. I have a feeling the niece is going to think .. "I won't see you again, so I'll never pay you back". If she used her aunt's sickness to make me sympathetic, it worked, but ..... seriously, there isn't a single person I'd want to come over anymore. My cousin has become a drunk, talking the q-anon playbook because he feels a part of something. And he's always talking about why the world is destroyed because of the world being brainwashed, and then I have to to remind him he's no different.
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@aninditasen (15742)
• Raurkela, India
1 Dec 22
Really sorry for your aunt and may she rest in peace. Be careful from your niece and cousin.
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• United States
1 Dec 22
Thank you.
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@marguicha (215428)
• Chile
1 Dec 22
Sorry for your loss. I only lend money to those people that I donĀ“t care if they pay me pack or not. That is, my 2 daughters and my best friends.
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• United States
1 Dec 22
Thanks. Yes, I made a mistake. But, my mother told me to call her and give it to her. The next time I talk to my mom, there's going to be a lot of yelling/cursing. But she'll forget it in 2 seconds.
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@popciclecold (35103)
• United States
1 Dec 22
Sorry for your loss.
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• United States
1 Dec 22
Thank you.
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