What am I Irritated About Today?

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Ghee! Let's see. (This is opposed to the things I am thankful for.) I haven't griped for quite a while but..... My survey site went down a few days ago. I was bummed cause I actually had the energy to do these and all my Mylotting, and several other things I do daily online. It was back up the very next day. But, now it's having problems again. Grrr! Our family friend came for a visit earlier. Good to see him. He's the one that was going to move in with us but wasn't able to. So, he is our hands-on helper around here. He oversees the housekeeping and had been here a couple of weeks ago and brought the sad and maddening fact to me that my daughter is lying to me about keeping up the house. I love her like crazy but she is a horrible housekeeper and a big-time liar. And, her son feels bad for her and so he isn't truthful either and doesn't do much to help her. He just asks if he can help her with anything and she just continually says no. I told him that my daughter is not a leader. She'll say no but he needs to look over the place and lead her to what needs to be done. It's not like my daughter is weak or feeble. She's just lazy! I just can't believe it. I used to hold down a very stressful job full-time. I also wrangled her daughter around from age 3 until about 14 or 15. She was a real problem child. I also did the cooking, shopping, and all housekeeping. That's while my daughter was off being homeless, doing drugs, yada, yada and more yada. It was a horrid time but I did it. Now my daughter is lying about keeping the kitchen clean. So my grandson and my daughter are down in disgustingly dirty land. They'd better have it clean in a while too or Granny is going to go ballistic!. It is like I repeatedly tell my daughter--if she would just eliminate the dirt and scum then keeping it up is not that tough. But, now because she hasn't kept it clean she has to scour it until it sparkles first, then she can keep up on it. Sorry folks. Just needed to vent a bit.