it's been hard to get on here lately

@spiderdust (14756)
San Jose, California
March 11, 2023 4:34pm CST
A lot happened this week, or at least it feels like it's been a pretty full week. I had a family member have a mental health issue this week that killed an entire day and drained the energy from the days that followed. I had a child with a birthday this week and I worked pretty hard to make sure it was a fun day despite my exhaustion (I think it was successful). I'm still dealing with the recovery of my ankle sprain while working at a job that requires standing and moving around. I've been diligent about wearing the splint, but I'll be honest... I'm really looking forward to not wearing it anymore. It's been pouring rain again lately, so my back yard is flooded again with soggy ground. When this happened last month, I slipped in the mud and sprained my ankle, so it's a little scary going in the yard now. On Thursday night when it was raining hard with a lot of wind, the structure around the sandbox and play area in the back yard collapsed. It's not the end of the world and nothing except the shade structure was damaged, but it's still disappointing. Today I'm finally roasting one of the free turkeys from work again. I was going to roast it last week, but it took this long to actually thaw. We're having that tonight with scalloped potatoes and broccoli, and I think we still have some cranberry sauce in the pantry. I'm tired, but still alive and surviving.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54714)
• United States
11 Mar 23
Your meal sounds delicious. I hope that you can relax some.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
11 Mar 23
I hope that I can too. I've been trying to get more rest when I get the chance.
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 23
What was the mental health issue all about? It was pouring down rain here for awhile, but now it has settled down.
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@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Mar 23
@spiderdust It was warm enough that I was out in my t-shirt. But not "super" warm.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
12 Mar 23
@TheHorse I actually opened up the house to let in the fresh air. It's wild that I was just looking at snow the other day.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
12 Mar 23
Was it really warm for you too? We didn't get any rain today and it's 60°F.
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
12 Mar 23
I wish there were some way to drain your yard so that wouldn't flood..I can understand how horrid that is. Happy Birthday to your little one. Sorry to hear of the other mental health thing..I get a lof of that here, so I also understand that. It is draining. Hope your ankle recover soon..it is frustrating to say the least I am sure and sorry that happened. Good to see you Kelli.
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• United States
12 Mar 23
@spiderdust Good then
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
12 Mar 23
It's surprisingly warm here today, so I hope a lot of the rain evaporates.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
12 Mar 23
I'm sorry about all the problems that are happening with you and your family. I hope everything has calmed back down now and you'll feel better soon. Your dinner sounds delicious. I hope everyone enjoys it.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
12 Mar 23
@spiderdust Yeah, that's exactly how it feels.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
12 Mar 23
It feels like there's always something, doesn't it?
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
12 Mar 23
@DaddyEvil I keep waiting for life to slow down, but I'm not sure that's going to happen any time soon.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
11 Mar 23
Sorry about all the problems you've been dealing with. We all have them and can't be here when we'd like. Enjoy your huge turkey and try to relax.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
11 Mar 23
Yes, life has an annoying habit of getting in the way of things sometimes. The turkey just came out of the oven and looks perfect, I'll carve it up in a bit after it rests.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
11 Mar 23
@spiderdust I hope your problems subside soon and that splint comes off soon and sets you free. Enjoy your turkey dinner. I picture more meals to come from it.
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
11 Mar 23
Thank goodness despite the rough times you are going through, you are alive and well.
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
12 Mar 23
@spiderdust I know how it feels to be sad when you are ill and you want to work and help others.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
11 Mar 23
This is very true!
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
12 Mar 23
@Deepizzaguy It has definitely been hard.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
12 Mar 23
Some weeks feel like they are more than others. I wish I had a turkey, it sounds yummy. Be careful with that mud. Last year, as in January 2022 a coworker had a slip in the mud and a pop that resulted in pins in her ankle and lots of time off that she did not have PTO for. I am glad you are diligent about wearing your boot and that eventually you will recover.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
12 Mar 23
I was worried when it happened that my injury would be as bad as your co-worker's. I'm so thankful it wasn't.
@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Mar 23
It's been "a week" here too. Somehow we all just keep on going no matter what - and hey, we have a new week to look forward to . I hope your weekend is relaxing . . . you know dinner is going to be great tonight. Hope your ankle gets completely better soon!
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Mar 23
You sure have had your share of problems, I hope things improve during the new week, Enjoy the turkey and be careful of that ankle, I hope it heals up quickly,
@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
11 Mar 23
It's getting better every day.
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@NJChicaa (127116)
• United States
11 Mar 23
turkey sounds good!
@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
11 Mar 23
I think it will be a pretty good dinner. I think I'm going to make something other than turkey for Easter though. I originally thought that would make a good Easter dinner, but we're going to be pretty burned out on turkey before then.
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@LindaOHio (222235)
• United States
14 Mar 23
I'm sorry things have not been going well. Get some rest and feel better. Thanks for the update.