I heard you
By Jenaisle
@Jenaisle (16568)
Philippines
April 30, 2023 11:10pm CST
You don't have to yell. I listen more attentively to people who speak in a normal manner and not those with loud voices. I tend to be jumpy when someone speaks loudly like he/she is speaking to someone far from him. I usually assume there is an emergency. As they say, don't shout, unless needed.
I even prefer someone whispering to me than someone yelling.
A lower voice register speaks more strongly to me because I can listen more attentively without the accompanying stress.
What about you?
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@ihasaquestion (8273)
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1 May 23
Yes..there's no need to shout. Albeit that, some people tend to have loud voices though. Anyway, speaking soft and polite will be cool but not all with loud voices have bad intentions though.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
1 May 23
Of course, wearing masks never helped, and my Doctor, has a soft voice, but with his mask on, it comes over as muffled, and it is impossible to understand him.
We should assess each situation on its merits.
I also have a quiet voice, and many times, people have told me to speak louder, so that they can hear me.
As to yelling, though, I do not like that either, and I usually move away from a yeller, telling them, as someone else said too, that I will only listen to him when he calms down, and talks more gently.
@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
1 May 23
@Jenaisle Yes, nobody deserves to be yelled at, ever.
That is one reason that l do not like the army, and other military organisations.
They yell at the ones lower down to show their "authority" to them, which just makes them hated more.















