My Last Post in 2022.

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In my last discussion in 2022, you will read that I was looking forward to a picnic with friends (now ex-friends). Because what was supposed to be a happy weekend picnic turned into sour memory, I had a wake-up call. Lessons learned from that picnic: *I should be more selective of the people I allow in my circle. *I should be observant of the body language and gestures of the people around me. These will magnify whether they are fake or genuine friends. * It is important to listen to how they speak of others. * When the emotion is high, stay silent. * Hang out with people who choose to be more fruitful than productive. For me, there is a fine line between productive and fruitful. A thief can be productive but not fruitful. Do you agree? * Not all schooled people are educated. * Some people will not like you for their own reasons. When someone doesn't like you, no matter how hard you try to be nice and accommodating, they will still not respond positively. It can be difficult to accept, but it is important to recognize that you cannot make someone like you if they don't want to. * There is a fine line between outspoken and outright disrespectful. Despite what happened, my husband's actions proved that he could bite a bullet for me. Now that I cut off my connections with these three ex-friends, I have been more mindful of my actions. But my experience brought anxiety. It is kinda hard to put the details of what happened during the picnic. Some lotters might think it is petty. But I will share slowly as I am still in the process of healing. They are the type of people I do not want to be.