Do Age Gaps Matter ?

@Kandae11 (57233)
June 27, 2023 10:48am CST
Where there is deep love, a huge age gap between partners in marriage may not matter much. Actress Joan Collins who is now 88 recetly celebrated two decades of marriage to 56- year- old hubby Percy. That is a 32 year age gap. He is her fifth husband and she says the marriage is a happy one. She also revealed one of the secrets of a happy marriage - separate bathrooms. For a very long time l have been thinking that would be a very good idea. What do you think ? Picture shows Joan Collins and hubby at their wedding 20 years ago.
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@DaddyEvil (174233)
• United States
27 Jun 23
Both of my ex-wives were a number of years older than me. The difference in age never mattered... and wasn't even brought up in conversation with either of them.
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@DaddyEvil (174233)
• United States
27 Jun 23
@Kandae11 But sometimes it still does matter. My second wife didn't like that I was younger than her... We never discussed it but she brought it up with my friends all the time.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jun 23
@DaddyEvil That is a problem right there. Maybe your interests, hobbies were not the same as hers, because of the age difference.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jun 23
It shouldn't matter if it is true love and not just a physical attraction.
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@sallypup (69157)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Jun 23
He's handsome in that kilt. That is a crazy age gap.
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@sallypup (69157)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Jun 23
@Kandae11 My husband has a kilt. He is starting to wear it.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
@sallypup l never imagined kilts could look masculine but they certainly do.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
Yes he looks quite dapper in his kilt. They look great together.
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
2 Jul 23
Fine with me separate bathrooms on all counts.
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• United States
3 Jul 23
@Kandae11 (57233)
3 Jul 23
Same here.
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Jun 23
I don't think age matters. My Dad's best friend is in his early 90s and has been married to his second wife for many years. I think the age difference is around 20 years. They are happy. I've always admired them.
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
29 Jun 23
@Kandae11 yes that's true.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
That's great. Of course people pay attention when there is a big age gap, but even more attention is paid when the woman is the older party.
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• United States
28 Jun 23
These days those huge age gaps don't seem to matter as much as it did years ago.
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• United States
28 Jun 23
@Kandae11 changing times for sure. Some for the good and some not so much
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
Changing times.
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@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
28 Jun 23
Joan Collins is a diva!!! She looks good at her age!! The dress is very pretty. Her husband ain't bad. 20 years, she must be doing something right this time!!
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
She certainly made the right choice this time. She was born on May 23 , 1933 so she is actually 90 years old.
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@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
28 Jun 23
@Kandae11 wonder if she had any facelift , chin tucks, liposuction or anything else lifted?!
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
@db20747 Most movie stars do, one can only guess ...
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@TheHorse (238275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jun 23
Age does matter. But love trumps all.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
Well said.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jun 23
Age shouldn't matter when love is at the heart of the marriage.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
That is so true.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 Jun 23
Age doesn't matter.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
In her case it certainly didn't .
@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
28 Jun 23
Evidently it worked for them. But that’s too much of an age gap. She’s a very rich lady. I wonder if that has anything to do with it.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
28 Jun 23
@Kandae11 Yes, I remember Dynasty. She’s a good actress.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
I remember her from the soap opera "Dynasty" and a few movies. Her husband is a film producer so he should have some money of his own. Yes it is a huge gap.
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28 Jun 23
I dont know. I am only 2 years older than my wife. Always we feel the love is just growing and growing
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
That's perfect.
@hillhjill (23761)
• United States
27 Jun 23
No I don't think an age gab should matter if you truly love the person. Age is just a number.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jun 23
I tend to agree. However , she is now 88 and he is56...
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@hillhjill (23761)
• United States
27 Jun 23
@Kandae11 she's a cougar lol.. that is a big difference and it might be about the money.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Jun 23
I think age is only a number. It is all about your love and happiness.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jun 23
Love is supposed to conquer all.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Jun 23
@Kandae11 It definitely is the way to happiness.
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@Shasha_ (1333)
• Porto, Portugal
27 Jun 23
I don't think age gap will matter as song as they open their heart to each other.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
Love conquers all.
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@Shasha_ (1333)
• Porto, Portugal
28 Jun 23
@Kandae11 Exactly
@snowy22315 (208748)
• United States
27 Jun 23
Yes, I think they matter. Studies have shown the greater the age gap between couples the more likely a divorce..I don't think a few years matter...but 10,20.30 something to think about.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jun 23
They are still together, but she is 88 and he 56. Time marches on and he could probably be a widower soon, unless she lives to be100.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
27 Jun 23
I'm glad they survived that long despite the age gap. I learned through observation that age gaps do matter in couples, especially if the age gap is so huge. Having separate bathrooms could be a good suggestion, but I haven't confirmed this yet myself, so I'm still skeptical.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jun 23
I just know it would work for me, but if l was married, my husband might not think the same way.
@allknowing (153544)
• India
28 Jun 23
I really would not know Ours was just six years and nine months
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
That's just about right.
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@Juliaacv (56199)
• Canada
27 Jun 23
Yes, I feel that an age gap does catch up with a couple. They will not go through the same changes in life together, that can cause an indifference.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jun 23
Exactly. Those 20 years might just be the best they will experience.
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@JudyEv (381815)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jun 23
We don't have separate bathrooms and never have any conflicts. We do have two toilets. At least she has stuck with this husband for 20 years so that's to their credit.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Jun 23
The fifth was her best choice.
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• United States
3 Jul 23
They look the same age in the picture.