I have been sad today.
By marguicha
@marguicha (230334)
Chile
February 1, 2025 12:22pm CST
Yesterday, when I was coming back for buying my meds, I saw several people in my neighbor´s garden. So I said hello with my hand and my neighbor´s son came to say hello to me and told me that Miguel, my neighbor, has died last night.
Miguel has helped me a lot all these years. And 2 years ago, when I had the kitchen fire, I called Noni, his wife. She called the firemen and told me that Miguel had suffered a stroke and was learning to walk and talk again.
These two years I have thought a lot about them but Noni told me that Miguel did not want anyone to know about what had happened to him. So I never called.
Last night, after Camila and her friend left, I checked online and there was a place where you could write something if you so wished. I did.
Miguel was 10 years younger than me. It is a shame that the best people usually die younger. 
These two years I have thought a lot about them but Noni told me that Miguel did not want anyone to know about what had happened to him. So I never called.
Last night, after Camila and her friend left, I checked online and there was a place where you could write something if you so wished. I did.
Miguel was 10 years younger than me. It is a shame that the best people usually die younger. 
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22 responses
@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
1 Feb 25
Aww so sorry. I am sure your words will help the survivors.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
1 Feb 25
I didn´t dare go yesterday to say anything to them as there were many people I did not know. But I hope theat they will read my words later on.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
1 Feb 25
It is. He was a hardworking man and very much a family man.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
1 Feb 25
I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm sure his family appreciate your kindness over the years and what you wrote online.
I'm sure his family appreciate your kindness over the years and what you wrote online.2 people like this
@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
1 Feb 25
He always helped me when I needed him. Even yesterday, his son had some nice words for me.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
2 Feb 25
@DaddyEvil True. And his son is as nice as he was.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
1 Feb 25
@marguicha Good neighbors and friends are like that. Always offering to help.
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@Marilynda1225 (91013)
• United States
1 Feb 25
That is so sad that you found out about your neighbor Miguel. Im sure the family will appreciate your words
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
2 Feb 25
So sorry for this sudden loss. No wonder you felt sad.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
2 Feb 25
I should have called Noni before, maybe. But I did not want to intrude.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Feb 25
@marguicha I've seen both - the notebooks and the online ones. At least in doing it online, you can take your time and write exactly how you feel on your own time.
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@kaylachan (84703)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Feb 25
Sorry to hear about the loss. I'm glad he lived as long as he had.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
1 Feb 25
I also worry about his wife although she is a strong woman.
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@kaylachan (84703)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Feb 25
@marguicha Loss is never easy. No matter who you are.
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@rakski (156200)
• Philippines
2 Feb 25
@marguicha no one will be prepared for news like that
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
1 Feb 25
Sorry to learn about the loss of life of your neighbor losing his life last night.
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Feb 25
@marguicha I am in agreement with you.
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@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Feb 25
Miguel sounds like quite the gentleman. Sorry to hear of his passing.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
2 Feb 25
He was one of the old neighbors, before those new ones that don´t even say hello when coming nearby.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
2 Feb 25
We all go through these sad days and that is what life is all about
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Feb 25
So sorry to hear this, It is always hardest on those left behind, I wonder if they'll sell the house,
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
2 Feb 25
It will depend on the widow and her 2 chidren, I suppose. The land will be very expensive as it is a lot bigger than my own plot.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
2 Feb 25
He was my only near friend here until my parents nouse was sold.
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