does your mom loves you?
By mauier113
@mauier113 (688)
Philippines
December 2, 2006 2:22pm CST
If yes, you're lucky. Because my mom doesn't. Since my childhood, she didn't take care of me. I was raised by my granny since birth because my mom was so sick when I was born but she never made an effort to get me from granny as I was growing. Now, that I'm a grown-up, she's jealous of what I have, if there are good things that comes my way, I can see and feel she's not happy, and always critizise me of whatever I do comparing me with my sisters, why??? I can't say I'm adopted because there is a strong resemblance of our physical features.
4 responses
@Deane_2005 (1644)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
I guess were on the same field. My mom usually criticized me as well. She seldom say nice thing to me and she had never take care of me when I was still young. She chooses my educational career for me eventhough I don't like it. She always get mad each time I don't go to church and tells me am going to hell. My grandmother is the one who takes care of me. She was not even there when I was baptized , isn't it unusual that a mother is not even present in her daughter baptismal. I had many problems with my papers because of that.I just don't understand why mother is acting that way.
@mauier113 (688)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
I thought I was only the one having this kind of thing..and having the same questions on our mind, am I right? maybe the only difference is that when she chooses a course I've to take when I was to go to college(she asked a niece of her to get an application for me for a course she would like me to take) But I didn't took the exam. Instead, I took a course of my liking. And disobeying her made us more apart.
@alecs76 (657)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
maybe your mom have reasons why she didn't get you from your granny. besides being sick, maybe she thought you'd be better to stay with your granny. why didn't you asked her? no mother can't love her own child. she may play favorites but you're still her child.
how can you say that she's jealous of what you have? i think that since you didn't live her that makes you and her contradicts with each other. you too can't be angry with her even she's not there when you're growing. she's still your mom and you know what it makes to be a mother.
