Son or daughter?

Singapore
December 17, 2006 6:02am CST
Ok, this is not a sexist question, but then, would you prefer to have a son first or a daughter first? I prefer to have a son first! =D
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20 responses
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
17 Dec 06
I have only one son and that is it. My wife always wanted a daughter, because she came from a family which had 3 daughters no son. she is grown amongst the girls.
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• Singapore
19 Dec 06
why not try for a daughter now? :D
• Singapore
17 Dec 06
i will prefer to have daughter first as i would like to 'doll' up my daughter LOL i asked my bf the same question...and he also agreed to go for daughter first as he said it's good to have a daughter, being pampered and loved by the guys ....
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• Singapore
18 Dec 06
haha.. 'doll' your daughter up? thats a good one to have a daughter first.. ;P
@gabs8513 (48710)
• United Kingdom
17 Dec 06
I was lucky as I did have a Son first and then a Daughter I was hoping the Son would be first and he was but even if my Daughter would have come first it would have made no difference
• Singapore
18 Dec 06
thanks for response friend! so i think no matter who come first, 1 son 1 daughter will b fine for u.. =D
@gabs8513 (48710)
• United Kingdom
18 Dec 06
Yes it makes no difference as long as the Cjild was healthy
@prasad1961 (5602)
• India
18 Dec 06
Before this calculation of getting boy or girl, you need action first. Rest will be done by the harmones in both of your partners. Don't go strongly with your wish. Whatever the first come invite them happily.
• Singapore
29 Dec 06
haha, thanks for advice, its just a simple discussion to see which do you all prefer.. =D
@emarie (5451)
• United States
18 Dec 06
i wanted a son first because i wanted him to be able to protects his younger siblings. although i did get a son first..i also got a son the 2nd time around, which i was rooting for a girls. =( but i still have some time
• Singapore
26 Dec 06
thanks for response! i believe that you definately can try more children! =D
@perugu (5281)
• India
17 Dec 06
hi,its really descrimenating as girls and boys...we are not do like that.we are ready to accept who may ever born......even don't expect also by the educated like us...
• Singapore
26 Dec 06
thanks for response friend! =D
@sweetcakes (3505)
• United States
17 Dec 06
as long as they are healthy it don't matter to me.
• Singapore
21 Dec 06
thanks for response! =D
• India
17 Dec 06
I would go for Son only. In future the domination was ladies only anyway i go for son only
• Singapore
17 Dec 06
thanks for response! =D
@desiret (2122)
• Italy
28 Dec 06
i preferred to have son first too,but i had 2 daughters... and for me it is ok! i love them!
• India
28 Dec 06
Son
@leanette (3003)
• India
25 Dec 06
i don't want to hope anything, but i prefer girls...nice lovely cute babies, won't gimme mama much trouble! if i had a daughter she would be a beauty like me! :) i wouldnb't mind if i had a boy .....then i'd again try for a girl! :D ^_^
@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 06
I was prefer a daughter first but it came a son in actual fact.....my reasons for having a daughter is that I think girls are not as naughty as boys and my wife was thinking of by then she can do a lot of things to make her look pretty:) Anyway I don't really mind sons or daughters as I think they are both a gift from god.
@Lydia1901 (16353)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I wanted a son first, but I got a daughter instead. Maybe our next baby will be a boy.
• United States
19 Dec 06
I think that Men would more likely to prefer a Son first, since they would want to teach them everything they know, and vise-versa, for a Women to want to have a daughter first, so she can bring her up like she was, and just have more incommon with her child.
@marciascott (25553)
• United States
18 Dec 06
I always wanted a daughter first. but I had a son first.
@marciascott (25553)
• United States
18 Dec 06
Well of course you would. Well, I had a son first, But I have a daughter too. so I have both.
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
i would like to have a daughter first but we dont actually know what God would gives us. I could say any from both as long as it is normal and healthy.
@rein_rgm (390)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
son first...
@lulylove (1561)
• Brazil
18 Dec 06
son - son baby
I find that we do not have to choose or to be very thinking about any, therefore always is God who decides if we will have a son or a son, but if one day we podessemos to ask for, I I went to want a son, exactly that she is more difficult to take care of.
@Metallion (2228)
• United States
18 Dec 06
We wanted a son and that's what we got. My wife commented as a female that she viewed teenage females as harder to raise than teenage males. We might try at some point for a daughter, but right now enjoying raising our son.