How do you stopped licking your own wounds?
By bettafish
@bettafish (352)
Singapore
October 2, 2006 11:14am CST
Ever feel that enough is enough and you want to do something to get out of the pits? How did you save yourself?
3 responses
@Lackingstyle (7509)
•
7 Oct 06
By realising I had to save myself. If you lick your own wounds for long enough they become sore.
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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10 Oct 06
I agree completely. I think for some situations you have to 'physically' return to it/location et cetera, other there will always be a certain stigma that you hold.
@bettafish (352)
• Singapore
10 Oct 06
hi lackingstyle, yes sometimes the revisitaion would means to confront the fears, pain and to find closure to a traumatic event in order for the person to move on. But sufficient support needs to be established before the person is 'well enough' to revisit.
@bettafish (352)
• Singapore
9 Oct 06
hi lackingstyle, plus revisiting the 'pain' without seeking to resolve them does little at all to the situation. True friendship can help the healing process.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
6 Oct 06
I turn to my best friend. She always knows how to make me feel better and get my mind off of what is making me upset.
@bettafish (352)
• Singapore
7 Oct 06
hi rumuxagirl, yeap i agree some people are great listeners and i bet your best fren is someone like tat. Good for you.
@bettafish (352)
• Singapore
6 Oct 06
hi raopek413, i acknowledge that it's hard too, but u know what, you have begun the first step and now you have have to see the next step forward. little by little , step by step.
Sometimes for me, its 3 steps forward and two steps back, but i kept going. I hope you do too.
