Will u marry just because u got pregnant?

Definitely NO! I will not make the whole situations more complicated. If he will not marry me because I am pregnant I will not force myself to ask him to marry me. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Even if I'm pregnant, it doesn't mean I need to get married very soon to save myself from shame. I do not care what other people may say about me. After all they will not help me out with my situation..they will only make talks about the situation. But one thing for sure, I will stand being responsible for what happen. Sometimes, I hate to say this some parents will force their daughter to get married soon to save the family from shame. I for one do not believe on saving yourself from shame or that traditional notion that people might think of you differently now and that your world will stop revolving and that opportunity will no longer comes to you because you are a single mom, unwed mom..and you will lose your credibility as woman. You have nothing to lost. Try to pick up broken pieces again. Take the challenge of being a single mom .I believe that marriage should be built on commitment (a lifetime commitment for sure), emotionally you are ready, trust, love and that you get married for right reasons not because you are pregnant. Pregnancy is not the right reason for you to get married. If they guy is ready to marry you..well, good enough. But if you are not ready yet then don't take the plunge.

Years ago when I was engaged, I found out I was pregnant, I almost cancelled my wedding because I did not want people to think that was the reason. Even though the date had been set long before. I miscarried before I could even tell my ex Husband now. Fast forward, after my divorce I was in a committed relationship, found myself pregnant, and would'nt marry the father. I knew it wasn't going to last. My next relationship we had 3 beautiful daughters together, I didn't get married. My husband now, we don't have any children together and we won't, we have a great blended family 4 of my girls and 1 son from him. If I was the parent, unless I really felt that they really loved each, I wouldn't even bring the subject of marriage up. why compound the problem. In fact I would tell my son or my daughter that marriage isn't going to make everything better, but could make the situation worse. I think I've done a good job of raising my children, my daughters could accept that responsibility on their own if they had to. My son would step up to the plate and take the responsibility. He would be a active and responsible father, doesn't mean he has to give up his life for the mother. But he would for his child.

It is up to the girl who is pregnant to decide what to do. She made the problem and she has to solve it. A forced marriage because of a baby usually won't work out in the end, if the parents are young. It is a mess to be in. Better the girl kept her morals and didn't get into such a situation.

Not unless I was really in love with the person. I think its good to have both parents but if they are miserable then I don't think that's healthy for the child.

If i am the parent i will see to it that they bought ready emotionally to settle down.If they are then why not. But if not, i won't let them to get married, because it is better for them to grow up or to be mature enough to get into married life. If its me who got pregnant, if we both ready to settle down and we love each other i will, if i got if not,its better to raise my child alone.

I would if we really love each other, but other than that I won't. If the pregnancy itself is a mistake caused of being impulsive, then marrying each other without truly having that love would be another stupid mistake. Being pregnant isn't enough reason to get married. Marriage is not a way to cover up for what has already transpired that we cannot change, it definitely won't be a solution to the current situation either. Simple.. if you really love each other go ahead and marry, but if not, don't do it just because you got pregnant, it's not a way out, it's a disaster waiting to happen.

I did get pregnant before marriage. I was 18 and when I found out we decided to get married. We had been together since the 8th grade so it was something we wanted to do someday anyway. I just didn't want my child to be born out of wedlock. I am a christian so to me it was bad enough that she was conceived out of wedlock. I didn't want her to born to unmarried parents as well.

Of course not.It's not the best sittuation possible,but I wouldn't do that!If I got pregnant is my foult,and I will support the consequences!