Divorce
By minerc
@minerc (1373)
United States
January 19, 2007 11:18am CST
I have been divorced twice, not really by choice I guess. The first was a high school sweetheart got pregnant and married, he became abuseive. We divorced and I still went back to him I wasted many years of my life. My second husband was an abuser of another sorts, and I really didnt want any part of it. Now I am married again this time it is different, this time it just seems like its meant to be. Why do people act so negativly about divorce, people make mistakes and get hooked up with the wrong people at the time they don't realize it but graudally the truth always comes out. Is God going to be upset with me because I have been divorced. My husband is a great person and yeah I wish I could have met him years ago but it didnt work out that way. Is it still wrong. Does Anybody Know?
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3 responses
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
12 Feb 07
well the thing i cannot understand is why one has to get marriede if they fall pregnant. you could of made the chose to have the child and rase it together. and if things worked out between you then get married. and going back to an abusive man is wrong write there. but hey, you have learned from your mistakes and have a good man. bets of luck to you and your family.
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@mckenziemom (522)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I too have been divorced and am now remarried. I had a great deal of guilt leaving my first husband..but it turned out being the right thing to do. Initially, I felt a lot of guilt being a christian and getting divorced. What has brought me comfort is knowing that the God that I serve, loves all people in their times of trouble, no matter how imperfect our situation, whenever we make mistakes you can take comfort in God's love and forgiveness. Let yourself off the hook, you are not alone and enjoy your new life.
@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I do not think divorce to be a bad thing. Marriages good or bad can come to an emotional end. I don't know anyone that has entered into a marriage thinking they would ever divorce their spouse. When I married my first husband I thought we would go on forever. We had 4 kids and divorced. Life goes on.
