Tactful ot Tactless???which one describes you??!!
By nicolai
@nicolai (288)
Philippines
January 28, 2007 9:55pm CST
It so easy to be tactless, all you have to do is to say what you feel to say,the bad part is you did not consider what might be the feelings of the one whom you're talking to,,but when your tactful, you watch your word everytime not to offend people....I am a tactful person,,how about you?
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7 responses
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
For me I am both. I am tactful in the sense that I consider others feelings and emotions and I talk with respect. I am tactless in the point that I go, talk, comment or answer directly without thinking how will other people receive it, if I have offended them. I just don't want to bush around.
@vashstampede992000 (2560)
• Philippines
15 Sep 07
Hi there, i also consider myself as a Tactful person and i always consider what others would feel if im going to say something that could possibly hurt them.
I always watch my words, and i tend to be quiet rather than saying something bad.
It's just that, i believe the saying that, "keep your mouth shut, if you have nothing good to say".
Have a nice day ahead from Kiko and happy posting and earning here in mylot and Godspeed.
@certified_alice (1854)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
I guess I am a tactful person too because I don't want to hurt everybody. I can't consider myself being tactless because I am not good at press relations stuff. I am kind of a person who is quiet sometimes but if ever you'll talk to me then I'll talk to you. Although I am a careless type most of the time on some actions but never been tactless:)
@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I consider myself to be a tactful person. Once in a while however my sarcasm overtakes me and god knows what will come out then..hehe I try to put things as nicely as possible as I don't like to offend people or hurt their feelings. I really hate it when I say things out of anger, you can't take it back. Sometimes however you just have to be blunt and tell it like it is.
@trouble4u2avoid (2915)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Well, I would like to consider myself tactful but I have been known to make people cry on ocassion. I don't think it was what I said or how I said it. I think it boils down to some people can't handle the truth mo matter how tactful you are.
@snowflake5 (1579)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I'm a tactful person. I'm always aware of the feelings of the other person (my husband says I read faces really well and can always tell if someone is distressed).
I think that tactless people simply don't pick up the signs that the other person is distressed. They don't pay attention to the expressions on the other person's face, and are more concerned with themselves.







