Living a secret life?
By anjoks
@anjoks (2080)
Philippines
January 29, 2007 12:41am CST
Three years ago, i saw my dad sleeping with another woman. That is completely a shocked to my life, it made me a person full of anger and hatred inside and out. I'm still carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders right now. . What about you?
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5 responses
@since_before (106)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
life is like a wave it goes up it never stay in bottom nor in ups but all we have is to learn from our experience to and this learning should used in order to be strongin any problem may come our way. Sometimes we must be hurt in order to grow .We mustfail in order to know..and sometimes lose in order to gain because some lessons are best learned through pain.
I just put in mind always this lesson and serve it as my guide in everyday life so I may say tha i have a happy life.
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@seabreeze (659)
• China
29 Jan 07
Do you see it?why you have a bad father?This is the world of grayness
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
What do you mean by your response? .. You asking me if i saw my dad sleeping with another woman? OF COURSE! i saw them with my own two eyes. And your asking me again why do i have a bad father? .. hmmn, i guess i have to ask my dad first about that, huh? tsk tsk. :-{
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@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
29 Jan 07
This is really cruel and disturbing experience.. are you still living with him? in all cases you will have to move on with your life and try to ignore what you saw/know .. don't let it make you lose trust in all men, choose the right man and don't worry that he will be like your dad.. I don't have anything similar in my life, I had a few shooks and disappointments but they was supposed to be predictable..
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
29 Jan 07
That what I was afraid off.. if you love your bf you should give him a chance, I know how hard it's for you but you must learn to be strong and get over it.. it will not happen with you, there are millions of happy wives that their husbands never cheat on them..
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
What do you mean that? "sounds like spam"? ... anyway, me and my dad still living in one roof. Yes, you are right. A cruel and disturbing experience for me, which until now am still carrying it. My boyfriend actally proposed to me to get married sometime last year, i turned him down coz of that experience. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, as much as i would really like to say YES to him, i can't. Something's holding me back and that is the reason. . So many fear running in my blood and i can't help it.
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
29 Jan 07
i am very sorry to hear that,and i think you could do nothing about,but live your own life .everything is not your matter.you do not need to take care anything about your father,as he is a adult who has his own thoughts and behavior.i hope you can have a very happy life everyday,it is enough ,and please note that everyone would have their secrets. :)
@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Life is full of secrets,sometimes cruel,sometimes not!But in the end facing all this my lead you to a better person.You dont have to shoulder it share it with other whom you can trust.
Dont leave in the past, you must learn to face your fear so that you and your boyfriend can start and live peace.
