BREAK UP.......Life after that

India
February 4, 2007 5:16am CST
Its seems that life has got an U turn after i had break up with my girlfriend,i dont understand how shall i continue my normal life after this,this was my first love and it almost lasted for 6 years...you understand how close this relationship was.....i dont understand what shall i do to forget all those thought that go roud in my mind day in and day out...i must find a solution for it,kindly tell me how to take my mind away from this situation,or tell me your experiences so that i can do something good to myself.
2 responses
@sajodude (117)
• India
7 Feb 07
If you can't swim, you should not jump into the swimming tank, I think. When you are in flight consider the air crash would happen, nothing should bother you in your life. You should be immunised to all calmaties and events.
@shorva (923)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
sorry to hear about that...yeah, it's goin to be tough, you really have to go through that. you can't forget things in an instant, and you can't get over someone overnight. when i broke up with my first boyfriend i thought everything's over. i was really depressed. my friends tried to helped me, we went out a lot and tried to have fun and all but at the end of the day i was still sad and lonely. i even told myself i definitely wouldn't love anyone as much as i loved my bf. 3 months later i met my current husband now, when i think back i just laugh how silly i was for getting depressed over it. it really takes time, just be patient and enjoy their company. don't force yourself to look for someone to replace your ex.