How do you stop a 12 year old from calling her mom names?

roflmao ok? well get another 12 yearold to either call that 12 yearold names of kick his butt lol

if denying her privalegs (phone, computer, friends over) doesnt work then spank her. dont beat her of course, you shoulndt leave marks. and a 12 yr old will be more affected by the embarrassment of a spanking at her age than the actual pain. im sure i will get flack for saying to use corporal punishment..but when i mouthed off as a kid, i got smacked on the *ss. and it worked! sometimes, some kids just need a spanking!