marriage in a simple wedding
By pormadi
@pormadi (1300)
Indonesia
February 9, 2007 3:51am CST
Just celeberating a wedding sacrament in the church only plus registering on civillian book on a bureau, I think my marriage is legal. No reception or party. No wedding party a big building (for example: hotels, restaurant, etc). This is my simple wedding. It is because I am not a rich one. What's your opinion about my marriage?
3 responses
@Bangalorean (1282)
• India
9 Feb 07
All of us, know that this day is the most memorable day for all of us.And how you wanna remember it,makes all the difference. Some among the celebrities would like to go into the anals of history and throw in lots of money into a wedding, for they feel its also a time for their near & dear ones to enjoy. Also, we haev people, like you and me, who prefer sober weddings.
Here in bangalore, there was a wedding a few days ago, where in the grrom didnt know who was his bride till the last minute, as he had a desire to marry the poorest of the poor girl. It may sound funny, but it was his desire.
It all depends on your views and opinions.Cant be generalised or legalised. We are yet to observe the extravagant wedding of Abhi and Ash
@sandgroper1 (628)
• Australia
11 Feb 07
i believe that marriage is more about the love and commitment that you have to and with each other and once you both sign that piece of paper you are truely entwined. the party ,reception or what ever you do afterwards is only a bonus.
a while ago 2 friends of mine got married and he was certain that a piece of paper was not going to change how he felt, but for her he would do it anyway. now 3 yrs on i just had to ask "did it make a difference getting married" his answer, YES, it has deepened his commitment to her and made him feel even more secure in his relationship.
my partner and i are 100% committed to each other and feel as thought we are already married but we will be getting married either this year or next. it wont be anything extravagant , just a garden ceremony and a bbq party afterwards .
as for your marriage, if you and your hubby are happy with how you got married thats all that matters. a wedding day is only 1 day. marriage is for however long your union lasts and that is the most important, most beautiful time. i wish you all the best and hope that you have a long and happy marriage and remember you dont need money to be rich if you have a loving relationship and happy home.
